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Who has given birth naturally? Not by C-Section. Natural child birth. That sh*t is no joke! I always say that you're not a woman until you experience natural child birth. Having a C-Section is not a woman's fault though. I feel mother nature has cheated them out of something every woman should experience.

But now this natural stuff.........no drugs, just cold natural child birth fuken hurts like hell! OMG........I've had 4 kids all natural and I still can remember each one of them.

If you've had natural child birth, what's your opinion about it?

And for men who have been there to see their wives give birth, share your opinion with us too?
 
LaBettyBoop I feel you on this I was all my kids be born and I felt the pain with my wife all the way. I pampered my wife during labor.
 
I had all 3 boys naturally.
with the lil 1 they tried to induce- that was fuuny,
honestly I think at times with all the heartache, migrains,stress and drama- I would have labor all over again- wait I'd prefer it.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Who has given birth naturally? Not by C-Section. Natural child birth. That sh*t is no joke! I always say that you're not a woman until you experience natural child birth. Having a C-Section is not a woman's fault though. I feel mother nature has cheated them out of something every woman should experience.


WHAT THE HELL IS THAT SUPPOSE TO MEAN, FOR MY SON I WENT THROUGH 18HRS OF LABOR BEFORE I HAD MY C-SECTION AND TRUST ME I AM EVERY BIT OF A WOMEN. DO U THINK A C SECTION IS A WALK IN THE PARK, SHIT THE HEALING PROCESS IS LONGER AND THE COMPLICATIONS ARE MORE SEVERE. PUSHING A BABY OUT DOESNT MAKE YOU A WOMEN OR A MOTHER, IT'S WHAT U DO AFTER THAT CHILD IS BORN THAT MAKES U WHO U ARE. I KNOW PLENTY OF PEOPLE WHO PUSH BABYS OUT NATURALY AND IN MY BOOK THEY AINT WORTH SHIT. ANOTHER THING I DONT FEEL CHEATED, I HAD MY BABY IN THE END, THATS REWARD ENOUGH FOR ME.I RESENT THAT COMMENT, IT'S NOT THE FIRST TIME I HEARD IT AND IT'S TO BE IGNORANT.

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La Mas Grande said:
LaBettyBoop said:
Who has given birth naturally? Not by C-Section. Natural child birth. That sh*t is no joke! I always say that you're not a woman until you experience natural child birth. Having a C-Section is not a woman's fault though. I feel mother nature has cheated them out of something every woman should experience.


WHAT THE HELL IS THAT SUPPOSE TO MEAN, FOR MY SON I WENT THROUGH 18HRS OF LABOR BEFORE I HAD MY C-SECTION AND TRUST ME I AM EVERY BIT OF A WOMEN. PUSHING A BABY OUT DOESNT MAKE YOU A WOMEN OR A MOTHER, IT'S WHAT U DO AFTER THAT CHILD IS BORN THAT MAKES U WHO U ARE. I RESENT THAT COMMENT, IT'S NOT THE FIRST TIME I HEARD IT AND I FIND IT TO BE IGNORANT.

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If you noticed I did write up there I feel women who have experienced C-Sections were CHEATED out of something. My own cousin had a c-section and she told me the same thing. And a good friend of mine told me she was upset because she had to have a c-section and she really wanted to have natural because of all that she heard about it.

Don't get offended by this Diane........There have been women that had c-sections and then have natural birth next time around.
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Well this is an expression................Labor is hard.......all women go through it. No doubt. It's an expression that you hear a lot of women saying about natural child birth.

****Not to be taken personally please****

Hope you all understand..........
 
OKAY FIRST OF ALL I DONT FEEL CHEATED AND I DONT NEED TO PUSH A BABY THROUGH MY CROUCH IN ORDER TO FEEL LIKE A WOMEN. IT TAKES ALOT MORE THAN THAT FOR ME. I WORK HARD EVERYDAY IN ORDER TO CARE FOR MY CHILDRENS WHO I HAD VIA C-SECTION. LET ASK U SOMETHING WOULD IT MAKE ME MORE OF A WOMEN IF I HAD A BABY "NATURALLY" THEN DUMP HIM SOMEWHERE. THE COMMENT IS STUPID AND DEGRADING. I WENT THROUGH A HELL OF ALOT TO HAVE MY CHILDREN AND FOR YOU TO COME HERE AND SAY IM LESS OF A WOMEN OR I WAS DENIED SOMETHING BECAUSE OF A C-SECTION JUST PISSES ME OFF.
 
i must agree with grande on this one. i too had to have an EMERGENCY c- section. after already being fully dialated( 10 cm). the nurse did a pelvic exam and noticed the baby was comming out breach. i had to have a spinal tap cause i didnt take any pain meds during LABOR. spinal tap is the most excrutiating and most itnense form of local anethesia.

i know what child brith is like. do you know we have to have a catheter and when we sit up, cough or put any strain on our stomach muscles it feels as if 20 people are stabbing and punching you there. i even got an infection from them cutting me open, so i was in the hospital 5 days!

furthermore i was advised that i shouldnt have any more kids. so sorry that i will nevr be a REAL WOMEN according to you:facial
 
I understand where Diane is coming from. I was there for the first one she pushed and pushed to no avail my godson would not come out. so we had to have a c-section. I say she had it worse than we do. she got cut open and stapled back together. it's not as simple as it may seem. I gave birth to my kids (all four) by natural. I don't think you get cheated out of anything really. I think you endure more cause now you have to worry about staples and your uterus contracting back to normal. Either way we went thru a hell of a experience. Wether c-section or natural.
 
Lamatrix said:
I understand where Diane is coming from. I was there for the first one she pushed and pushed to no avail my godson would not come out. so we had to have a c-section. I say she had it worse than we do. she got cut open and stapled back together. it's not as simple as it may seem. I gave birth to my kids (all four) by natural. I don't think you get cheated out of anything really. I think you endure more cause now you have to worry about staples and your uterus contracting back to normal. Either way we went thru a hell of a experience. Wether c-section or natural.
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Lamatrix I truly understand her sensitivity. No intentions on offending anyone. Really............

My cousin went through the same thing. Believe me......... I know.
 
but she is right to say that it does come out wrong to say it doesn't make you a woman. Being a woman is not giving birth but how we live our lives and show maturity and responsibility.

any one can give birth. It's the one who nourishes and raises their children to be outstanding responsible adults who make a great woman.
 
To all who were offended by this, I'm sorry. Truly. I'm woman enough to say "I'm sorry". I guess it was taken in a way I didn't THINK it would be taken.
 
Lamatrix said:
any one can give birth. It's the one who nourishes and raises their children to be outstanding responsible adults who make a great woman.
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AMEN Lala! And LMAO @ we had to have a c-section! :lol

I don't have any kids (yet...the good lord willing, someday I will) so I'm just a changling :stoned
 
Hold up now I had a c section and I am just as much a woman as any dayum female who has given birth NATURALLY I went through 17 hours of labor before my Doctor decided to cut me and it was because my sons hear beat started dropping. I dont think I was cheated out of anything I see you apologized but it got me upset because I never knew why woman said that about woman who have had c sections untill I had to have one done my son weighed 8lbs 12 oz there was NO way he was coming out Naturally out my lil ass. I always believed a Mother is the one who raises you not gives birth to you. I fo sho dont feel cheated not with the beautiful son I got.
 
Damn what hysteria. Ladies I feel for you. When my wife gave birth for my youngest son she went into labor on a Monday morning giving birth on Wednesday after school just in time to pick up my kids. But I let her rip into me thru that. Its all good
 
Sexyangel329 said:
Hold up now I had a c section and I am just as much a woman as any dayum female who has given birth NATURALLY I went through 17 hours of labor before my Doctor decided to cut me and it was because my sons hear beat started dropping. I dont think I was cheated out of anything I see you apologized but it got me upset because I never knew why woman said that about woman who have had c sections untill I had to have one done my son weighed 8lbs 12 oz there was NO way he was coming out Naturally out my lil ass. I always believed a Mother is the one who raises you not gives birth to you. I fo sho dont feel cheated not with the beautiful son I got.
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AAAAAAAAAAAAAGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Angie I already said this BEFORE you posted.
To all who were offended by this, I'm sorry. Truly. I'm woman enough to say "I'm sorry". I guess it was taken in a way I didn't THINK it would be taken.
 
Well I had both, Natural and C-section. and it takes a great person to be a mother not because it was natural or C-section. They both hurt like hell to me, my first one ripped his way out, he weighed 8lbs adn I was just as skinny as Angie was, more if oyu can beleive it. with my second one it was an emergency c-section, after 23 hours in labor (and my doctor not being able to deliver me) I had an intern who wasn't that experienced! so my C-section wasn't as traumatic as my natiral one was, BUT the healing process was worse, in everyway imaginable.

So I say they are both BIRTH CONTROL FOR ME NOW!! I had the experience of both types of labors.

I can see how many would get offended by the comment, but ladies she also did Apologize. My of us in here have said things that at the moment in your head it sounded ok, but in writing it definitely looks different.

But like i said, whether natural or C-section it don't really matter, what matters is that the child is raised with love , respect, tenderness. as I see that we all do.

And I comment the men who are strong enough to be in there with thier women through this, not too many can say they can handle it.
 
I had completely natural child birth. Not even epidural, nada. Not my choice but the doctor's choice. lol
It was good to be awake to see my son come out after all those hours of pushing.
I don't want to speak for Yvette, but I think maybe that was what she meant. The joy of actually seeing your child come out after all the sweat and tears.
Either way, your first glance at your baby is priceless.
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