Gift or Theft? Who's right or wrong

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Brklyn345

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Ok peeps, I'll start from the beginning....last year my cousin, who has been a repeat offender since 15, gets locked up for drug dealing, gets 3 to 6. He was living with my grandmother and great-grandmother at the time. So my great-grandmother decides to get rid of his things because the guy is 35 and still hasn't learned his lesson, and basically burned his last bridge with the family. So my great-grandmother gives me his Kenneth Cole watch and his North Face coat...initially I felt bad, cuz at the time I wasn't working and I felt like I didn't earn it. My mom said I should give it back to her because we didn't know if he paid for the things legitimately or stole them or in a drug trade, and that when he gets out, he's gonna look for them. After much thought I figured I'd keep the coat and the watch, with the reasoning that with his time in jail, the last thing he'll be thinking about is his belongings. So fast forward to yesterday, I'm about a block from my grandmother's, and I see her and my mom on the street. I'm wearing the watch, btw, and my mom immediately started on the watch, telling me that my great-grandmother was wrong to give the watch to me, and my grandmother was telling her that my cousin doesn't need it where he's at. So we're all walking to the building, when my mom decides that she's gonna go home. I'm chasing mom down the block telling not to get mad, she says she's disappointed in me, I'm telling her it's not her call to make. Finally I take the watch off, dangle it in her face, and toss it into the nearest garbage can. But NOOOOO this doesn't satisfy her. She continues to cause drama in the street and finally I have to remind her that it's been four years since I've moved out and I'm 28 goddamn years old and yet she still tries to run my life. Then mom tells me to call her (which as of now I haven't). So what do you guys think? Was my mom putting her 2 cents where it didn't belong?
 
That's a tough call.

it's really not your mother's business, but the property could be stolen, and you being is possession of it is illegal.
 
ChuckD said:
That's a tough call.

it's really not your mother's business, but the property could be stolen, and you being is possession of it is illegal.
The operative word here is "could" - since nobody really knows how the watch was obtained (more than likely it was purchased outright, but from the drug money income) I think you should have kept it. First of all, the watch is doing noone any good in a dumpster. If you really want to just get rid of the ill gotten gains to keep the family peace, then send the coat and watch (if you can still get it back) to a relief fund for Hurricane Katrina - then some good will come from the illegal activity that your cousin was involved in.
 
I can positively assure u that he will come home and be looking for his stuff......he is thinkin about his stuff 24/7 because he knows thats the only things he has.....its a criminals mental mentality....the first thing they ask when they come home is "where is my sh&t?"......u better get back to that dumpster before Taezee does.....
 
In my opinion I think your mom was expressing her strong concern. She cares. 🙂

"What if" your cousin when he is free will ask for his belongings? What then? You just may never know his intentions.

People are like that sometimes they ask for their stuff and your mom does not want to see you caught up in things. I can understand if he is doing a life sentence...but 3-6 years is not a very long time.

My opinion on this matter Robert. :cool
 
damianwild said:
The operative word here is "could" - since nobody really knows how the watch was obtained (more than likely it was purchased outright, but from the drug money income) I think you should have kept it. First of all, the watch is doing noone any good in a dumpster. If you really want to just get rid of the ill gotten gains to keep the family peace, then send the coat and watch (if you can still get it back) to a relief fund for Hurricane Katrina - then some good will come from the illegal activity that your cousin was involved in.


watch is probably gone by now..sweltering heat minimal water,,dehydration..hey nows a good time to rock a northface!!!!!!
 
don't worry....Tae might get a watch for Christmas if he behaves.


I wouldn't have taken it to begin with. It is his property no matter where he is. You mom was only concerned and it's in her right to feel that way.
 
Your mom was just being a mom and showing you that she cares, she probably doesn't want you to be caught up in any drama when he comes out in case he does come looking for his stuff.
 
I got to agree with Erica I have had friends relatives ex's do time and when you are locked up the little you have outside is what you look forward to coming home too . Everything you got is taken away form you so the first thing you want to do when you get home is get what yougot specially when it comes to lothes and jewlery having to wear state clothes they look forward to whats theres so although he may not be thinking about his watch and jacket 24/7 as far he knows he has those few things at home. I wouldnt have excepted it not because it might be stolen but because its teh little he has and why put yourself in a situation whee he might come home and come looking for his things. As far as your mom she need to mind her buz your an adult choices you make are your own she may not like them but there yuors to make.
 
Cuz I'm your boy, & its Kenneth Cole... I'ma look out for both of ya'll. Bring that watch this way, I'll rock it, & it'll be once less problem in your fam....lol
 
All of you have made valid points.....many of which had crossed my mind...well the watch is landfill by now, can't do anything about that now, but I still got the jacket...I really don't care about my cousin since he's such a f**king moron, I think I'll take damian's advice and donate it.
 
Brklyn345 said:
All of you have made valid points.....many of which had crossed my mind...well the watch is landfill by now, can't do anything about that now, but I still got the jacket...I really don't care about my cousin since he's such a f**king moron, I think I'll take damian's advice and donate it.
I think that is a great idea - better than throwing it away - and taezee LMAO - I didn't mean they were going to be wearing it NOW lol - it will start getting cold in a few weeks and those people lost all their winter clothes as well as everything else they had...
 
damianwild said:
I think that is a great idea - better than throwing it away - and taezee LMAO - I didn't mean they were going to be wearing it NOW lol - it will start getting cold in a few weeks and those people lost all their winter clothes as well as everything else they had...[/QUOT

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yo brklyn...i know the real reason why u changed your mind and tossed the watch out...cuase u know dudes go crazy when they come and all their ish is gone...specially if the watch was of value. you know when ur cousin come home from jail the first person he's going to step to is you ....cause all the bieja son bonchichosa...grandma gonna drop dime on you....just give the watch back...and the funky sneakers,coat,rocawear shirts,tims,hoody etc lol...yo, was you that crazy kid rocking a north face jacket this summer in brooklyn by woodbine ave?? lol
 
DJ_JTEK76 said:
yo brklyn...i know the real reason why u changed your mind and tossed the watch out...cuase u know dudes go crazy when they come and all their ish is gone...specially if the watch was of value. you know when ur cousin come home from jail the first person he's going to step to is you ....cause all the bieja son bonchichosa...grandma gonna drop dime on you....just give the watch back...and the funky sneakers,coat,rocawear shirts,tims,hoody etc lol...yo, was you that crazy kid rocking a north face jacket this summer in brooklyn by woodbine ave?? lol

LOL hellz no....it's been tucked away in my suitcase since april...as far as my cousin goes, he's no physical threat to me, and if he tried to hurt my grandmothers in any way, I wouldn't think twice about taking him out...the man is his own worst enemy...the police already know the places he goes when he's outta jail, so I'm not worried at all about when he comes out. He's eligible for parole in 2007 but since he's a repeat offender, most likely he'll be denied and wind up being released in 2010...either way with his record he'll be right back in soon after he gets released....no worries at all.
 
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