Friends as Lovers?

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Have you ever been in a situation that you're friends with someone ....but you have grown attached .... and you just want to take it to a different level but too afraid to ruin the "friendship" you have.

Could you or would you ever want to be just friends with benefits?? Or is that too much??
 
I have that situation one time, I had a friend since I was 8 years old and we tried once to go on a date but it didnt work we realize that we were to much like family to have sometype of relationship. So we decided to be friends. About having friends with benefits I am not with that because of the fact that I want more than that, I want a relationship.
 
I've only done the friend to boyfriend once... it ended very badly and I vowed never to do that again!
 
Hello!!!!! Oh my. I had that situation once, but never acted on it.

He's still a friend, and that's ok. I'd rather have him as a friend, then ruin it.
 
i have a firend we have been friends for almost 3 years. last year we started a relationship.. it only lasted about 4 months.. we stayed friends and by the summer we were friends with benefits. and just about a week ago.. i told him i can't do this any more cuz i'm fallin for him badly.. and he says he also cares for me but we are headed in different directions.. so now i'm here with a broken heart be cuz i fell for my friend. and now we r not talking cuz it hurts to much 2 know that the man you care about is not willin to start a realationship with you but does not mind having sex..
this is very heartbreakin for me..
so i say don't ever do it.. it's better to have a friend then mess it all for a good time..
 
Awwwww CG I feel ya .... I had a VERY VERY similar situation but it ended quite differently .... I agree if you have a friend don't chance it by hooking up.
 
After 7 years of being best friends with a guy we decided to take it further tho for the about 2years of those 7 years we always debated the idea, but the whole ruining the friendship thing kept coming up...but we ended up taking it further and didn't ruin the friendship 🙂
 
friends w/ benefits is something that always worked for me, b/c well i just don't want a relationship. but i have had the situation where I wanted more from a friend but i never acted on it. the sad part is that we did sleep w/ each other and I fell.....but some things are better left unsaid
 
Friends + lovers = UNSURE


Friends that just want to be friends but want to just "sleep" with eachother? I don't think that'll work. Too many feelings can arise when you get intimitally involved. You no longer can "think" or "feel" just like a friend. And if feelings do arise that can ruin a friendship that was once a very good one.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Friends that just want to be friends but want to just "sleep" with eachother? I don't think that'll work. Too many feelings can arise when you get intimitally involved. You no longer can "think" or "feel" just like a friend. And if feelings do arise that can ruin a friendship that was once a very good one.
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Very valid point.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Friends + lovers = UNSURE


Friends that just want to be friends but want to just "sleep" with eachother? I don't think that'll work. Too many feelings can arise when you get intimitally involved. You no longer can "think" or "feel" just like a friend. And if feelings do arise that can ruin a friendship that was once a very good one.
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well lucky for me i'm a cold hearted b***h LMFAOOOOOO I don't get feelings or attached
 
AAwwww, Nessa, now you're not. (you don't seem to be anyway 😉)

Once a friend... should stay a friend.

Sleeping together only brings emotions of the heart and if that's not something two people share... then there's no way it can work.
 
I believe you have to first become great friends in order to have a long lasting relationship or even marriage.

Just seems that people don't believe in the building of a solid foundation for good relationship anymore.
 
Dayum Nessa, I had a horrible TYPO in that sentence... I meant to type NO YOU'RE NOT... not NOW YOU'RE NOT. :lol
 
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