For Married and Single People


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Sep 8, 2002
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I recieved this in an email today

This is long, but it is DEEP, a must read and please pass it on.

To those of you who are single or married, saved or not saved, this is
for you. I am a 35 year old brother dying of Aids. I would like to share
my testimony with you. I am an owner of a Mortgage Company in Atlanta,
GA. I own a 1999 Jaguar and I also own a $350,000 beautiful home in Cobb
County. I have a beautiful lady who is deeply in love with me and a
loving family. But most important, I have Jesus. This is just a wake up
call to all single brothers and sisters who are professing to be
Christians, but don't want to be complete. Brothers, I had a beautiful
young lady who loves the Lord and worships the ground I walk on. But I
still wasn't quite happy because sometimes I would see another sister
with a Coca-Cola bottle shape and just wanted to hit it. Because I was
using a condom I thought that I wouldn't catch the Killer "AIDS" But
guess what? It did. And the person I caught it from was a girl that I
knew well. But the condom came off and now I am dying of AIDS. Yes, I
wore a condom. But yes it did happen. God gives us time after time to
straighten our lives up. I do know the Lord in the pardon of my sins.
I've been saved now for 7 years. I found out 7 months ago that I had the
virus, and now I have full-blown Aids. And I want you all to know that I
have never been with another man. I really didn't think that I was doing
anything wrong, because I would tell the women who I would deal with
about the woman I love. I thought that was good enough. But it wasn't. I
am a good man and also a God-fearing man; but my weakness was women.
I really wasn't out there like you may think I was. But every once and a
while I would see something I wanted to try. My girlfriend is a praying
woman. I know now that she was intimate with me because she loved me and
she wanted to make me happy. Now I've given AIDS to the woman I love
(who has been faithful to me) because of lust. Brothers and sisters,
what I am telling you is that God is tired of us hurting each other and
using each other for self gratification. God has given me my home, my
dream car and a beautiful woman and I took it all for granted. I've been
tithing for 7 years. I am the chairman of my Deacon Board. But when I
told my Pastor I had AIDS, he could not believe it because of the way I
would carry myself. Brothers .. if you have a sister who loves the Lord
and who loves you for who you are and not for what you look like and not
for what you have, cherish her. Sisters ... if you have a brother who
loves the Lord, love him and cherish him. My life has been altered. I've
been with my lady since I was 20, and I've always used my young age as
an excuse for not being loyal and not settling down with the woman I
loved. I was being a hypocrite thinking that I was missing something,
and not realizing that I had a good woman who loved and adored me. I
wish I had been a real man and had appreciated the good woman God had
sent me by not making excuses and dedicating my life to her. I would
love to travel and marry this beautiful young lady-but now I can't. I've
embarrassed my family, my church and my friends. But I was hardheaded
and now I must suffer. God is cleaning up. Stop playing with God. God is
revealing the secrets of us Christians. Brothers and sisters, we don't
have to have so many "friends," you know what we call them. "The ones we
are planning to sleep with but haven't yet." We often say that we don't
want anyone to know our business, but God is about to reveal some
things. Especially us young people. We think so carnal. But we say that
we have been transformed. We have been transformed from what we want to
be transformed from. Let's be real. God knows that the opposite sex
attracts us. And he knows the desires we have for each other, but we
don't have to have multiple partners. If I could do it all over again,
would marry the woman I love and live happy forever. But now I can't!
But you can! Singles... I gotta tell you, it's not worth it. I love you
all! Get rid of casual sex. And fight to prevent lovemaking
(fornication)! This is really deep. After you've read this, think about
yourself. Could this have been you? Some of you may not relate, but
think about anything you are doing right now that is not of God. You may
not have anything to do with premarital sex. or a sexual affair, but sin
is sin and everything done in the dark shall come to light. We are
living in the last and final days, and pretending to be saved is not
going to cut it. Professing that He is Lord, and yet worshipping the
devil every chance you get will led you to the same path as me. Sex for
those who are saved must be with your OWN wife or husband. That includes
necking and petting, touching, oral sex, phone or Internet sex, and even
fantasizing. Get your mind out of the gutter and put it in the Word of
God and you'll have great success. Don't and you'll have great woe. I
love the LORD and thank Him for all that he does in my life, therefore,
I'm passing this on. Yes, I do love Jesus who has forgiven me of the
repeated sins. That forgiveness does not cancel out the consequences, at
least not so far. But that's on me. Still, the Lord is my source of
existence and Savior. He keeps me functioning each day and is letting me
share my story with you. I'm telling it like it REALLY is to help
somebody. Without Him, I will be nothing. Without Him, I am nothing but
with Him I can do all things. Phil 4:13 If you love Jesus, send this to
lots of people!!!!!! Be Positive - Be Progressive... Take the time to
make a positive difference in someone's life.


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Sep 17, 2004
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so many people have that "not me" attitude...


The Gay Lord of Freestyle
Jan 3, 2001
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Essex County, New Jersey
People need to learn that screwing around is not worth it.

Even if you are single, and you are just looking for casual sex, it can happen to you.

I have it posted on my Yahoo Member page that I don't to "hook ups" and even have the following signature on my member page.....

"If you're looking for the goodies, keep on looking 'cause mine stay in the jar."