Fair Or Not?

[Brklyn345]

I have this friend who just got out of a three year relationship. He didn't even wait a minute before he hopped into another relationship. Now the thing is, he's having a long distance relationship with this guy in Florida, and they've only been together for like a month, and this guy is totally in love with my friend. But now my friend is seeing someone who lives up here in NYC, and he wants to see how things work out. Meanwhile, he hasn't told this guy in Florida about the guy in NYC, out of fear that he won't have the guy in Florida to fall back on in case the NYC guy doesn't work out. I know how it is, when you get out of a bad relationship because the other has been playing you, and your first reaction may be 'I'm gonna be the playa this time'. But I don't think it's fair to the guy in Florida to wait around for my friend while he plays the field up here in NYC, when he could at least be doing the same down there. What do you CF peeps think? :confused

 

[ChuckD]

Hey buddy....good to see you around!

As for what is going on between your friend and the guys, a lot depends on what he is telling these guys.

If he has told the guy in Florida that they are an "exclusive" thing, then he shouldn't be seeing anyone else. However, if he told Florida guy that they will see other people, then he is free to do as he pleases.

In my opinion, until there are engagement rings on fingers, all parties are free to do what they want.

 

[Dayer]

I agree with Chuck 100%

 

[La Mas Grande]

So do I Dayer...........

🙂

 

[tanktruck]

Like I always say..What goes around comes around. If indeed your friend is playing with someone's emotions or feeling. It's gonna come back to him. It's not right and it doesn't feel good to have your feeling played with.