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I wanna tell u my last weekend's story...
We have this club called Paparozzi. Nice place, beautiful people, etc. etc. Basically, my fave place 2 hang out.
Anyhow, I went with my three best guy friends and one other girl. We had so much fun and all... party was LOUD!
Then I see my boys are trying to get me outta there. I was like WHY? They didn't wanna tell untill I saw what they were trying to hide from me.
My BESTEST girl ever, my sister-like friend was rubbing against my ex-bf. I couldn't believe my eyes! The story with me and him wasn't the pleasant one... the kinda relationship you DON'T wanna talk about (heartbrake, tears, all u can think of... just pretty intense!). WHen I was going through all that she was there telling me he's an a*****e, and he doens't deserve anyone like myself... blah blah blah.
Then to see them two in a club pretty much making out, I was like SHOCKED! I didn't know whether to jump on her and rip her hair out, or to just spit at her... or do something bad to both. But my friends basically carried me out, I was so mad!
She saw me and was running after us telling me how sorry she is and that she meant to tell me. WHEN????????? I told her to get out of my life for good. She cried and all... even my ex-moron came to appologize.
I don't know... did I over-react?
Is it normal for ur friends to date ur exs????
Tell me what u guys think
 
IM SO SORRY GIRL -- THAT IS SO HORRIBLE. TO BE BETRAYED BY A FRIEND HURTS MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE. I WONDER HOW LONG AGO DID YOU 2 DATE? AND DO YOU TALK TO YOUR FRIEND DAILY? I WONDER HOW LONG SHE HAS BEEN HOLDING THIS FROM YOU...

IS IT NORMAL???? NO FREAKIN WAY!!!! EXES ARE OFF LIMITS UNLESS YOU ALLOW SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES (IE- I HOOKED UP MY EX (FROM MANY MOONS AGO) WITH SOMEONE I KNEW). ME AND MY GIRLS ALWAYS KNOW THE UNWRITTEN RULE. ONCE YOU EVEN MESS WITH A GUY - HE IS OFF LIMITS TO EVERYONE ELSE.

IM SO SORRY!!!
 
omg, so I'm not a FREAK??!! thanks Jen Jen.. we talk like once or twice a week since she goes to a different school and she moved further. But I mean we talk frequently.
Me and him happened... well were still happening this past summer. The break up was the kind u put into the books... let me just say, mirrors were breaking... and car alarms were going ON. 😡
As I think of it... let them be... they deserve each other, just when she'll see his real face, she better not run to me.
 
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH JEN. HOW COULD SHE EVEN LOOK AT YOU IN THE FACE AFTER WHAT YOU SAW WITH YOUR NAKED EYES???????? BOTH OF THEM HAVE BIG BALLS FOR DOING THAT, LET ME TELL YOU!

SECONDLY, THEY SAY THAT EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. EVEN IN THE WORST SCENERIOS. MAYBE IT WAS MEANT FOR YOU TO BE THERE THAT NIGHT, SO THAT YOU CAN SEE WHAT THESE TWO SLIME BALLS WERE REALLY ALL ABOUT. I'M SO SORRY THAT YOU HAD TO SEE THAT.

EVEN THOUGH HER ARGUMENT MIGHT BE THAT YOU ARE NO LONGER WITH HIM, IT DOESN'T JUSTIFY THE FACT THAT SHE HOOKED UP WITH HIM...SPECIALLY AFTER YOU CRIED ON HER SHOULDER, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?

WHAT MAKES HER SO SPECIAL ANYWAY? HOW CAN SHE THINK THAT HE WON'T PUT HER THROUGH THE SAME DRAMA THAT HE PUT YOU THROUGH????????? WHAT AN IDIOT THAT GIRL IS.

I KNOW IT'S HARD FOR YOU TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT SHE WAS LIKE A SISTER TO YOU, BUT....WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. MY FRIENDS AND I KNOW NOT TO EVER DO THAT. WE DON'T EVEN HAVE TO MENTION TO ONE ANOTHER THAT IT'S WRONG.....WE ARE JUST SUPPOSED TO KNOW THESE THINGS. I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE GIRLS LIKE THAT. IT GIVES US GOOD GIRLS A STEROTYPE, YOU KNOW? "DON'T TRUST ANYONE" WHAT A LOAD OF CRAP.
 
Sohochick, thakns for the reply girl.
U know what, ur absolutely right, the reason we're thru is not a reason for her to hook up with him.
She has changed, I heard things about her that I neglected to believe, u know what... it all makes sense now.
She'll get what she deserves... GOd sees all.
It's pretty hard now... I spent so much time believing she'll be my bride's maid. We even arranged a few things early. No way! NO! Never now!
 
OMG...THAT SERIOUS, HUH? DAMM, I DUNNO WHAT TO SAY HUN.........I'M SORRY. WHAT EXACTLY DID THEY TRY TO SAY TO YOU? HAVE THEY TRIED CALLING YOU?????????😕
 
BrooklynJenJen said:
.....EXES ARE OFF LIMITS UNLESS YOU ALLOW SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES....
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Sorry, don't hate me guyz, but I don't agree with THIS statement! Put yourself in the "Ex" shoes. Why should your ex-girlfriend put some kind of "circumstance" or "rule" on who U date, whether it be an acquantance or a best friend of your ex's?? Same applies to the friend! "don't even think about dating my ex-boyfriend" Does that statement sound right? I don't think so!

I had a girl that about 6-7 months afterward started dating my cousin (who is like my brother since we were raised together). It was kinda weird at 1st, but then I thought about it! a. It'd be stupid to break them up (no valid reason other than greed). b. I been there, DONE that, and I got nothing more to do with it! c. He's messing with MY sloppy seconds.
 
It was kinda weird at 1st
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EVEN THOUGH YOU THOUGHT ABOUT IT AFTERWARDS, YOUR FIRST INSTINCTS WERE NOT GOOD. DON'T YOU KNOW TO ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR INSTINCTS????

SECONDLY, IT'S MUCH MORE DIFFERENT FOR A GIRL?? WHY YOU ASK? SIMPLY READ WHAT 1SXYCHICA POSTED............SHE WAS LIKE A SISTER TO HER. SHE CRIED ON HER SHOULDER. THAT GIRL KNEW THE REAL SCOOP ON THE BREAK-UP, SHE EVEN VOICED HER OPINION ON HOW MUCH OF AN a*****e HE WAS AND AMONGST OTHER THINGS THAT 1SXYCHICA DID NOT MENTION, BUT WE ALL KNOW WHAT OTHER WORDS SHE MUST OF USED TO BADMOUTH HIM. SO HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT IT'S OK FOR FRIENDS OR RELATIVES IN YOUR CASE, DATE YOUR EX????????????????????????????

THAT GIRL KNEW SHE WAS WRONG BECAUSE SHE WAS HIDING IT FROM 1SXYCHICA. IF THAT WEREN'T THE CASE, THEN SHE WOULD OF BEEN UP FRONT ABOUT IT AND SAME THING WITH HIM.

POINT BLANK.....IT'S JUST WRONG!!!!!!!!!🙄 😱
 
hey Putana 🙂
thnks for ur opinion.
I guess u and ur ex didn't have such a public and intense relationship and ur cousin probably didn't interfere like my friend intended to... but why would she hide it?
If she were to tell me that she really likes my ex, then hey u know what... no matter how hard that would be, I would live with it.
She lied... and I hate liars.

Sohochick, ur right.... that is wrong in my eyes.
 
I guess my ponit is, He didn't cheat! She wasn't INTENTIONALLY cold dissing her to show off or something! And unfortunately, things like this happen...there's no explanation for it! Attraction can get the best of ANYONE! I do see sxychica's point about how she cried on her shoulder 'n' whatnot, but she shouldn't be REALLY mad at her best friend over dating an ex. Just let it go! And if one day they end up getting married (which by the way, my cousin & my ex DID!) se la vie!
 
CHICA GIRL, YOU KNOW I'M GONNA HAVE TO STICK BY YOUR SIDE ON THIS ONE..........I COULD IMAGINE THE DRAMA THAT MUST OF PASSED IN YOUR HEAD.

PUTANA: I HOPE YOU DON'T TAKE IT OFFESIVELY HUN, I JUST HAD TO VOICE MY OPINION AND BACK UP WHY I DISAGREE WITH YOU.

CHICA, HOW ARE YOU FELLING RIGHT NOW? YOU DIDN'T ANSWER MY PREVIOUS QUESTIONS.
 
No he didnt "cheat" but he did disrepect her. Put it like this, if they were MADLY IN LOVE AND MADE FOR EACH OTHER than her friend should have had the decency to tell her. so basically she is a big fat liar.

and i understand what you are saying but they are SO many people in this world, why couldnt her friend find her own man?

Now, I am saying from a "special circumstance" -- My boyfriend, whom I have lived with for over a yr now, is someone Ive known since I was 15. We all used to hang out in a group and I dated his best friend. He dated 2 people who were good friends of mine at one time. One of the girls, I never speak to any more, we just lost touch several years ago (way before me and my man hooked up) and she and him was never serious. The other girl, my boyfriend dated her for 3 yrs and actually I used to hang out with the 2 of them. I NEVER liked him back then as more than a friend. I just wasnt attracted to him. Him and this girl broke up in the mid 90s and she moved to Florida and had a child. Him and I both speak to her to date and although it was weird when he told her...we expect an invitation to her wedding next yr. As far as his friend whom I dated, I was 16 at the time and it was NEVR serious (when I was 16, NOTHING was serious). My boyfriend actually just heard from this guy after several yrs and told him that he and I were together. He actually asked the guy if he minded - lol - of course not, he has a wife and a bunch of kids.
Anyway - thats my "special circumstance"

But dated my best friends ex man from last yr who had a horrible break up and then hiding it from her and lying -- thats not cool.
 
Sohochick... as of today I'm trying to ignore the dissapointment.
I don't want to discuss it with my friends or anyone is person, so that's why I posted it here, knowing that people like you will come along.
She keeps on calling my cell. She came over twice when I was gone... why is she trying...
I'm upset because I've been screwed over by girls over and over and over in my life and every time it was because of a man. 😡 How dumb chicks can be sometimes.
Ur lucky, u and ur friends have this bond, called RESPECT... I yet need to find one.
Or maybe... just stick to guys... guys are good friends and I don't have to worry about them dating my exs, lol 😀
 
Jen, ur right, I wish that was the case... I won't mind...
 
PUTANA: THERE WAS NOTHING THAT I POSTED BEFORE THAT SHOULD OF OFFENDED ANYONE........MEANING YOU. I POSTED THE SAME THING THREE TIMES, SO I HAD TO EDIT TWO OF THEM, IS THAT BETTER FOR YOU NOW? I'M GLAD THAT IT DID NOT BOTHER YOU AS MUCH ABOUT YOUR EX AND YOUR COUSIN, BUT YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT IT WAS TOTALLY DIFERENT THAN CHICA'S CASE, THAT'S ALL.

JEN, I UNDERSTAND YOU COMPLETELY. I HAD A SIMILAR SITUATION LIKE YOURS. WHEN I WAS 16 I USED BE FRIENDS WITH THIS GIRL IN MY SCHOOL. WE NEVER HUNG OUT OUSTIDE OF SCHOOL. ANYWAY, SHE ALWAYS USED TO MENTION THIS GUY TO ME WHO SHE WAS DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH. HE DISSED HER AS SOON AS SHE "GAVE IT UP", BUT OF COURSE SHE WANTED A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. I TOLD HER THAT HE WAS A LOSER AND WHAT NOT. ANYWAY, WE GRADUATED HIGH SCHOOL, AND WE STILL KEPT IN TOUCH SOMETIMES. I MET A GUY NAMED.....WAIT NO NAMES HERE...OK SO I MET THIS GUY IN COLLEGE AND WE HOOKED UP INSTANTLY.....WE FELL IN LOVE...BLAH BLAH BLAH. IT TURNS OUT THAT IT WAS THAT SAME GUY WHO DOGGED OUT MY FRIEND!!! I DIN'T KNOW THAT OF COURSE. THE ONLY THING THAT I DID KNOW WAS THAT SHE HAD MENTIONED THAT HE WENT TO MY SCHOOL. HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW THAT IT WOULD BE HIM???

EVENTUALLY HER AND I STOPPED SPEAKING BECAUSE WE NEVER SAW EACH OTHER AND OUR SCHEDULES CONFLICTED, AND THEN SHE FOUND OUT ABOUT ME AND HIM........TURNS OUT WHEN SHE CONFRONTED ME, I FOUND OUT RIGHT THEN AND THERE TOO!! LOL OH BOY, THE DRAMA!!

THIS IS THE SAME GUY WHO I'M FIGHTING WITH UNTIL THIS DAY!! 4 YEARS LATER!!!!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!
 
CHICA: TELL ME ABOUT IT!!

IF HER AND I WERE BEST FRIENDS, I WOULD OF NEVER DONE THAT. SPECIALLY IF I KNEW WHAT THE GUY LOOKED LIKE.

HE HAS A COMMON ANME, YOU KNOW?? HOW MANY ANTHONY'S ARE THERE IN THIS CITY........OK THAT'S HIS NAME.

WE WERE FRIENDS BUT NOT CLOSE LIKE THAT. I UNDERSTAND THAT SHE CONFIDED TO ME ABOUT HER LOVE PROBLEMS AND EVERYHTING, BUT I DIDN'T THINK THAT I WOULD FALL IN LOVE WITH THE SAME GUY!!

I FELT BAD WHEN I FOUND OUT. I EVEN TOLD HER THAT I WOULD LEAVE HIM IF THAT MADE HER MORE COMFORTABLE.....OF COURSE SHE WAS LIKE, "NO, YOU KEEP HIM" AND BLAH BLAH BLAH.

WHAT DOES YOUR EX HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THIS??????
 
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