Ever just wish you were someone else???

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Dianita

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I dunno, I guess I've just been feeling really down and hopeless. Sometimes it feels like eventually things go wrong in my life and nothing I do is good enough. I've tried all my life to be good and make everyone happy. I've never smoked, drank, or did any drugs, don't cuss respected my elders, was the good little faithful life keeping house nice for hubby, taking care of baby and making sure he always had the hot meal. What happened? I was too boring. Same with my man now. He thinks it's annoying I don't cuss and I feel like nothing I do is good enough. I feel like something is wrong with me sometimes...maybe if I were someone else...maybe I should change. Sorry guys just venting...
 
You are perfect. 😉 There is alot of men out there that will appreciate a woman like you. You have great qualities. Don't feel down.

What will drinking and cursing bring? Added spice to your life? Or be more acceptable? Please. You don't need to be like everyone else. You are unique in your own way. You just have a man that from the sounds of it does not appreciate you and your ways.

I bet you if you were to leave the nigga will be sweating you to come back!
 
Don't you ever wish you were someone else,
You were meant to be the way you are exactly.
Don't you ever say you don't like the way you are.
When you learn to love yourself, you're better off by far.
And I hope you always stay the same,
cuz there's nothin' 'bout you I would change.

I think that you could be whatever you wanted to be
If you could realize, all the dreams you have inside.
Don't be afraid if you've got something to say,
Just open up your heart and let it show you the way

Don't you ever wish you were someone else,
You were meant to be the way you are exactly.
Don't you ever say you don't like the way you are.
When you learn to love yourself, you're better off by far.
And I hope you always stay the same,
cuz there's nothin' 'bout you I would change.

Believe in yourself.
Reach down inside.
The love you find will set you free.
Believe in yourself, you will come alive.
Have faith in what you do.
You'll make it through.

Don't you ever wish you were someone else,
You were meant to be the way you are exactly.
Don't you ever say you don't like the way you are.
When you learn to love yourself, you're better off by far.
And I hope you always stay the same,
cuz there's nothin' 'bout you I would change.
 
Enigma said:
You are perfect. 😉 There is alot of men out there that will appreciate a woman like you. You have great qualities. Don't feel down.

What will drinking and cursing bring? Added spice to your life? Or be more acceptable? Please. You don't need to be like everyone else. You are unique in your own way. You just have a man that from the sounds of it does not appreciate you and your ways.

I bet you if you were to leave the nigga will be sweating you to come back!
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Wow, thanks, but that's too sweet. I've met many guys who claimed they like my personality, but it seems like they all think that means they can take advantage of me.

I believe my boyfriend loves me, but I'm just so different from all his old girlfriends. And I really want this to work out. I would never be comfortable with casual dating...But I know this relationship is doomed. As much as I try good things just don't work out for me. Sometimes I think some people just aren't meant to be happy.
 
ChuckD said:
Don't you ever wish you were someone else,
You were meant to be the way you are exactly.
Don't you ever say you don't like the way you are.
When you learn to love yourself, you're better off by far.
And I hope you always stay the same,
cuz there's nothin' 'bout you I would change.

I think that you could be whatever you wanted to be
If you could realize, all the dreams you have inside.
Don't be afraid if you've got something to say,
Just open up your heart and let it show you the way

Don't you ever wish you were someone else,
You were meant to be the way you are exactly.
Don't you ever say you don't like the way you are.
When you learn to love yourself, you're better off by far.
And I hope you always stay the same,
cuz there's nothin' 'bout you I would change.

Believe in yourself.
Reach down inside.
The love you find will set you free.
Believe in yourself, you will come alive.
Have faith in what you do.
You'll make it through.

Don't you ever wish you were someone else,
You were meant to be the way you are exactly.
Don't you ever say you don't like the way you are.
When you learn to love yourself, you're better off by far.
And I hope you always stay the same,
cuz there's nothin' 'bout you I would change.
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Thanks Chuckie, that was inspiring...it's not that I so much dislike myself...i just get so down that eventually things go wrong in my life. Damn, sometimes I even get afraid to be happy, cause I know something really bad is gonna happen afterwards.
 
JOEDOCPA said:
if your hubby thinks your boring just leave his ass for a better man who will love u for who you are not what u do or not do.
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I don't doubt he loves me, but I'm not so sure he appreciates who I am anymore...
 
JOEDOCPA said:
well if he dont appreciate you dont stick around with him leave him and move on to a better one who will appreciate u .
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We only have a year left together anyway...so I'm gonna leave everything up to fate...
 
imfromqueenz said:
wish I was a ghost sometimes......i guess its that whole disappearing factor.....and also being able to sneak up on someone and scare the sh8t out of them.....heeeheee :dwink
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Damn, I used to love Caspar...I always said if I can pick an animal to be reincarnated as, I'd be a bird so that way I could crap all over the windshields of people who have screwed me in this life. Only downside is ever since I said that, my man calls me to let me know one of my "friends" were after him.
 
imfromqueenz said:
always say....take things a day at a time....see where the road leads....if its a dead end, turn around and follow a different path.....
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Sometimes i feel like I've run outta gas though.
 
Dianita said:
Damn, I used to love Caspar...I always said if I can pick an animal to be reincarnated as, I'd be a bird so that way I could crap all over the windshields of people who have screwed me in this life. Only downside is ever since I said that, my man calls me to let me know one of my "friends" were after him.
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:losmile......tell him to play nice or ill send the birdman after him.....
 
imfromqueenz said:
......tell him to play nice or ill send the birdman after him.....
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OMG, just had a visual of what that baby would leave on a windshield....😀..
 
There is no reason to ever wish you were someone else. Why dont you trying doing different things with your man, do somethign he wouldnt expect plan a romantic night in our out dont think you haev to change yourself just try different things we all tend to become boring when we stick to the same routine shit i have no social life lol but there aint nothign worng with me lol. Dont say things are doom you control your outcome and if you feed negativity into it then you make it happen. Think positive 🙂
 
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