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One day my b/f told me that he recieved an e-mail (hotmail) from a girl that he meet while in the Marines. He also mentioned that they went to the ball together. He swears that she is ugly and that she was just one of the guys and that they all use to drink together. Well later that week he was in the office where I work at and he happened to check his e-mail. He told me that she sent him another email. She was askig him if he had a phone because she was dying to hear his voice. Then she also commented on how he looked since he forwarded her some pics. I told him that he needed to be honest with me and that if they were more then friends before us and he said that I am was making a big deal out of nothing and that at least he told me about the e-mail. He also mentioned something about she was his friend before me and that I needed to stop tripping. Am I really making a big deal about this? He has never betrayed my trust. But I wonder about the military man sometimes? Any advice?
 
Your Man Is Not Being Honest

Your man is not being honest with you. In the military you have 2 types of men: Family Men and Single Me... Then you have the "Single"- Married Men who play the field when they are married. We dont have "Girl Buddies"... Beware!
 
YO PUT THAT CAT IN ITS PLACE YO ITS EITHER YOU OR THE HIGHWAY HES RUNNING GAME ON YOU TRYIN TO BE SLICK
 
Ya know... I did this to my boyfriend. Only now do I understand how he felt when I kept in touch with an old "friend". It's not cool. You have every right to be upset. Either let him know that it hurts you and to stop... or kick his ass to the curb.
 
TO MAKE YOUR SITUATION A LITTLE MORE SIMPLER
IF HE DOES NOT LIKE FREESTYLE GET RID OF HIM ..
AND IF HE LIKES IT THEN KEEP HIM....AND RELAX!!!!.
 
Man you guys are a trip(lol)🙂 !! He does not like freestyle for shit. He buys me the cd's though. Well I have that chic's e-mail but I don't want to start anything. Should I email her and introduce myself?
 
hey if i was gonna lie ...i wouldnt have even told u about the email...and trust me you'd never find out.
Dont email her.

if i was being honest with my gf and i find out she doesnt believe me anyways and is checkin up on me 😱
 
The girl is stalking him. Give the guy a chance. Ask him to tell her that he is taken. If it continues..then drop him.
 
if he's using your p.c........ then he's a dawg!!

if there were a way like if you had his pass word to check his
e-mail (like i have my b/f's) then block her @ss outa there

sorry to hear about it i know it can be frustrating and annoying to think another chick is sweating your man.
 
YO ITS OK IF YOUR MAN IS BEING SWEATED CUZ HE'S ALL YOUR BUT MAKES SURE HE STANDS CORRECT AND KNOWS YOUR NOT A SUCKAH NIGGAH!!! BUT YO YOU THE WOMAN CUZ HE'S WIT YOU BUT IF HE PLAY GAMES DROP A GEM ON THEM LOL....
 
I have asked him for his e-mail password and he refuses to give it to me. I have come very close to breaking in to his hotmail. But then you have to change password and all that mess. He would know I did it.
 
YO IF HE GOT NOTHING TO HIDE HE WOULD SHOW YOU BUT SINCE HE'S PLAYING GAMES YO IF YOU GOT YOUR HEAD ON YOUR SHOULDERS YO LET SEE HOW FAR HE GOES BUT JUST BE PREPARED AND DONT GET YOURSELF DOWN BOUT IT
 
damn email!

Marialisa be careful girl 🙁 keep your eyes open 4 sure! N read his body language...n facial expressions thats how I know my mans lyin....Im a criminal justice major....i eventually wanted to be a innterrogator lmao but i changed my mind...a professor is coo. Anyways u could also analyze his handwritin I have a book on it. I had a long distance relationship with my ex n we wrote mad letters...it was sooo funny after i read the handwritin book....i found out hes a VERY bad liar...if only he knew i knew ahaha

Anyways back to ur predictament...FIRST of all were u two together when he was in the marines. if so he shouldnt have been her "friend" cuz to me guys n girls cant be friends!! (i used to argue otherwise, but im pretty decided on this one) As for him sayin she was "ugly" thats not a good sign either cuz my man did that to me...there was a girl in our college english class that sweated him n he smiled back n stuff n hed always say shes ugly, n looks like a man. then with my skilled questioning techniques....he slipped that she was PRETTY. boy i was piiisssssed! I took that as disrespect...disrespect the whole semester.
n if ur man sent her pics...why he need to do that if shes just a friend...friends dont care how ya look really. how long were they friends?
N from personal experience I was like ur man. id argue but he was my friend first.....n id say so dont bug....but 4 real my man had a right to worry back then. so its your nervous suspcious feelings are completely understandable! Ask him if hed write her less or not at all....my man used to write his ex...i told him if u do im out the door. i dont pkay games. who knows if he writes her...he has a secret screen name i just found out about. but i give him the benefit of the doubt cuz i love him!
so dont jump to conclusion but dont be blind either...strike a balance...gather ur evidence n make a decision on whether hes worth this stress. good luck
 
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