Did I do the right thing?

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You know how I was talking about eric before. Well he came back from boot camp and is here to stay. I was all happy, but now I don't know. He came back and it was like he didn't know me. He would talk to this girl that didn't even bother looking for him when he was in boot camp. I was always writing, sending shit to him, visiting. Anything to make him happy. And this girl did nothing and she has all his attention. He would go to my job looking for her and not even bothering to talk or look at me. Well we went to great america the other day and he kept interrupting me and David and I got all mad. It's rude!!!! So we got in a fight and now we are not speaking to each other. I finally wrote him and told him why I was so mad at him lately. Then I told him that if we didn't talk before I left I wouldn't care cause I don't need him. I don't need for some one to treat me this way. Do you think I did the right thing by telling him that?
 
I think you did the right thing.From experiencing bootcamp I can tell you that it changes your outlook on life alittle so maybe he wanted to explore alittle but he should be honest with you about it.Good Luck
 
There is nothing wrong in expressing yourself and speaking out..
unfortunately, he (Eric), may have his mind totally changed b/c of bootcamp. My older brother joined the Army a few years back and has that type of attitude that's angry and different then b4 he went into the army..so u did the right thing in telling Eric how u felt and how deep it affected you on how he was treating u even if he didnt know..but he has to be told one way or another..and u told him, so hopefully he should wake up and apologize to you..

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I have to agree with Rookie....if you can't tell the person you care about HOW you feel then you really shouldn't be with him. You did the right thing girl and the thing is now he will respect you more cuz you were honest with him. Good Luck!
 
You did the right thing from the beginning..... Honesty is the key to maintaing a close loving relationship... Without honesty there is no trust and there is no real commitment.... At times people do not know when there they are doing something that makes their partner feel uncomfortable or upset and unease.. But telling and expressing how you feel will make you feel better and hopefully open the other persons eyes.... Just keep on doing what your doing!!!!!😛
 
You did the right thing!

I think that you did the right thing. But I don't think that this Eric character knew just how much you went out of your way to be there for him. If he did not see that from the get go then he needs to be let go (lol). I don't understand why guys go for girls that treat them like shit. Maybe it's a challenge for them. But anyways always be honest with yourself before you can be honest with anyone else. Hope things are looking better for you.
 
I THOUGHT THIS WAS THE GUY WHO DUMPED YOU A COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO AND NOW HE'S WITH SOME OTHER CHICK FROM YOUR OFFICE? IF IT IS.....WHY ARE YOU STILL UP ON THIS GUY???
 
Guys apologize all of the time. Did he apologize because you wanted to hear it, or was it a genuine apology?

My guess is that he apologized to keep you on retainer. If you don't take control now, then none of us are going to be able to help you.

The relatioship should be conducted on your terms-or at the most on a compromise of both of you terms.

How many times are you going to step on that patch of ice that you keep slipping on?

Once...consider it a mistake, twice a habit, more than that...a problem!
 
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