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Right around the corner.....
Sitting here
Thinking of you
Crying my eyes out
Dont know what else to do.

Reading letters from the past
Just don't understand
If you loved me like you said
Why didn't this last?

My heart is in your hands
It's always been there too
I was just to blind to see
That I was in love with you.

Now I'm lost and empty
I need you back with me
Can't you see..
We were meant to be!!
 
I always was told "Don't cry for somebody who won't cry for you" Well i never really listened to that. And even though I know he ain't worth my tears or my heartache, I still can't help but cry anyway!!!!!! 🙁
 
i feel your pain

I really liked that poem :'(! Ive been cryin my eyes out, but i bet he hasnt shed a tear. I cant help it if i have a heart and he is cold n heartless. My tears keep fallin but they help me heel in a way.
 
I know how you feel. I just typed that poem and didn't even know that all that was in me. I cry to shed him off of me and away from me, but it only makes me miss him more. Time is the key to getting him off my mind. Keep your head up and i'll try to do the same.
 
Maybe I'm cold and heartless, but I ain't ever cryin over a guy again. I've shed my share of tears for losers, and finally realized that it wasn't worth it. Now I keep saying to myself, 'What was I thinking??????'

Screw em ladies!!!! Don't ever let a guy make you feel worthless. Men come and go. Don't obssess over one guy. There will always be another one right around the corner. 🙂
 
Martini I hear you!!

I've been there, and Freestylgoddess reading your poem reminded of me. There was one time where I thought that way too (about my sons father). Now as I got older and have experienced many things in life. I could NEVER see myself feeling that way over any MAN, NO MAN WILL EVER SEE A TEAR COME FROM MY EYEs BECAUSE NO MAN IS WORTH MY TEARS. I cant imagine myself in a situation like that ever again. You learn from your mistakes, and that is very true. I have learned to love myself more and become a stronger person and like Martini said she may be cold and heartless. Thats what happens after someone has caused so much pain. it leads you to become cold and heartless. You cant always give the best of you, because thats when they take advantage. I dont know your situation but from reading your poems you seem to have alot of hurt in you. Just remember one thing " After the pain comes the healing" that helped me get through alot!
 
One more thing

No man is worth your tears and the only one who is will never make you cry 😉
 
Yes!!!!!!

Thank you Sassy, well said! FreestyleGoddess, are you beginning to see the light???? lollllll. We've all been through it before and life does go on. Stay strong chica! Because you're FREE!!!!! SINGLE, SEXY AND FREE!!!!!!! 😉
 
You know what it is Martini

It upsets me to see woman down them selves over men, Especially dragg on pain. Men come and go.....that is soooo true. I mean I can relate to freestylegoddess and it hurts me to see her go through this it hurts me to see anybody go through this because I've been there and I would never want to see anybody go through this, NOW I look back and laugh at myself of how much I made an ass out of myself crying, crying to him, NO.........NEVER.........NEVER AGAIN. He didnt care, so what he knew he had me and thats all that mattered to him, he still did his dirt.

~Girlfriend keep walking through that dark tunnel at the end the light will shine. ~
 
I used to be like that I cried every fuc*in day. My little girls father used to treat me like shit he didnt care about me or his baby he didnt want to have anything to do with us he saw my daughter 1 time after she was born and didnt see her for about 3 months after that. I put up with his shit for years after that because I didnt think I could find better. But he aint worth it he dont deserve my love and he never has I was young and now that I found love else where he finally realized what he had lost and now he wants it back. Thats just to DAMN bad I will never go back to hell ever again. No man is worth crying over if a man loves you, you would never cry you would always smile. Now he's alone and all skinny GOOD! He expects me to feel sorry for him because he has no one and he's depressed do I care? HELL NO !!!! 😡
 
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this is what I think....

Having gone through the crying phase, this is what I think.

People get attached to others for a variety of reasons. Maybe he/she was their 1st, or the way they kiss, the way they talk or that you get used to them being there all the time.

When that person leaves or you kick them to the curb, it hurts. Not always because you want that person, mostly because its a change. Not everyone handles chance in a good way & when you do cry, its because you are uncertain of the future.

Alot of the times I cried & I thought that it was because I loved someone but after a while I realized that I didn't miss that person, I missed the companionship.

Now, not everyone will think the same way that I do but thats how I feel.

Crying is good, it unstresses you. But crying is only good if you know that you aren't crying over some loser. And trust me...once someone else catches your eye, time heals all wounds. I promise you that.
 
you are right Dayer~~~~~~~~~~

😱 i agree w/Dayer. i would like to add that the last time i cried was in Feb. i was in a rel. that got serious too fast. it was a a quick rel. i didn't trust that the guy wasn't seeing other women. i would get sick to my stomach daily right before it ended. he ended it cause when i introduced him to my friend,he grabbed her by the waiste and i got upset. he said he couldn't handle my trust issue. well i cried and got real depressed. i felt like a fool, like it was hopeless. i cried for about a week but then after i tried talking to him he turned on me big time so i realized my tears aren't worth shedding over him or any guy!!! what seemed like a long time actually wasn't. i've been w/out him longer then the rel. lasted. i am happier not being sick to my stomach. i will not cry over a guy any more. i value me.i am not ready for another rel. but i do date. i don't get too attached to any guys now. i am waiting for the one who will uplift me,not make me feel bad. i can wait for him.
 
He is not a man

Hi Freestyle godess I read your poem and I think it is amazing.You have a real talent with words,although this so called guy hurt you ,it is probably for the better the ONLY time a guy should make a girl cry is with tears of joy or that your laughing so hard that you start to cry.Be glad that he is gone and that he cant make you cry anymore,and now hopefully you can find someone better.The way I see things is that you were doing fine before you met this guy so you should be fine now that he is gone.Cheer up bella because things will only get better.ciao😀
 
DAMN GREEN EYEZ YOU REALLY HATE THAT KAT
BUT YOU RIGHT ESPECIALLY IF DONT SHOW INTEREST IN HIS CHILD HE AINT A MAN HES JUST A PIECE OF GARBAGE
 
Thanx all you guys for giving me some good advice. Honestly before him i wasn't doing that good. It's when we got together when i was my best. But he bought that out of me. It's wierd cause he makes me cry when i start to really think about what we had. When he's next to me all he does is make me smile and laugh. I have spent this whole weekend with him and I had no tears in my eyes. Maybe i am attached to him or to something that he has, but I know i do love him. I know he aint worth my tears which is why I don't cry for him no more, but it still hurts. And later i know he will realize that all he needed was me, but by then it will be too late. I'll show him how it felt when he did it to me.
 
🙂well no guy deserves the tears if he's gonna make them come. just be strong and in time the tears will turn to smiles. but all in time. peace
 
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