Breaking Up or Making Up?

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Which is easier to you? Breaking up or making up when it comes to relationships? Although they're both hard for some people, I would say it's probably harder making up. It feels good to make up but it's what follows after that good feeling passes. If the reason for breaking up was trust, then when you make up, you must still wonder about trusting your boyfriend/girlfriend right? Which will cause arguments and perhaps a break up again. :confused

What do you think? :rolleyes
 
hmmmmm. I think breakups are difficult. Only because I give my all in a relationship and I can't really stand the pain that comes with it.
 
I would have to say breaking up is more difficult, I also give all of myself in a relationship, the letting go of someone is to much more harder then the making up, because at least with the making up under a situation where they lied to you or did you wrong you know what to expect you know that you will have to work towards trusting and believeing in that person again where as breaking up you never know how long it will take to heal how much it will hurt and how much you have to let go of.
 
I would have to say that they are both in the middle with me. Making up after a trust issue is the most difficult thing to do, and actually some peeps never get over it, some move on but are still bitter.

Breaking up, hmm, I guess it depends on the situation, if it's a volatile relationship then someone is going to be happy bout it..lol I know I would.

but if your on the receiving end, then it hurts like a motha!!

so for me, being on both ends of that coin, I would have to say that both breaking up and making up is hard.

STARTING over is even worse sometimes!!!!LMAO!! Labettyboop, you got me depressed now!..LMAO😉
 
Nyasia said:

STARTING over is even worse sometimes!!!!LMAO!! Labettyboop, you got me depressed now!..LMAO😉


Sooorrrryyyy! 🙁 lol......lol...........It was something I thought about and was curious to hear other peoples opinions. 🙂
 
Nah mama, it's all good..lolol makes me wanna call my boo up and smother him with..um...kisses yeah kisses!..lolol
 
well i think breakin up is somethin no one likes to do right? but i mean cmon lets be real here if u did it, it was bcuz for a reason just like when ya make up it was for a reason ya did that also

but if ya see urself in a situation where neither takes the other seriously then ya gonna see games being play and thats when distrust and whatever comes into place

but if ya are 2 people who really understands each other and love each other to the fullest then i guess there shouldnt be no reason for breakin up unless if the two are married but if not then thats another story lol
 
Nyasia said:
Making up after a trust issue is the most difficult thing to do, and actually some peeps never get over it, some move on but are still bitter.

THAT'S ME NAYA!! IT'S LIKE YOU MAKE UP, BUT YOUR NOT REALLY FORGIVING THEM FOR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE. YA MOVE ON, BUT STILL BITTER OVER THE SITUATION! DAYUUUUUMMMMM DON'T EVEN REMIND ME 🙁 CAUSE I FEEL THAT THIS TRUST THING IS HAPPENING ALL OVER AGAIN........
 
I think Breaking up would be the hardest thing to do, your put into a situation where you have to wonder if the good in the relationship out weighs the bad. No matter how bad the problems are, once you break up all you seem to remember are the good time and realize there gone.
 
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