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Ok I just saw the movie the Black Book .....and for those of you who don't know what it is about..... Chic finds her mans palm pilot and uses it to find out about his exes? She soon finds out that he still talks to his exes and she starts investigating if he is cheating....


Anyways would you ever go thru your man/girl's things to look up her past??? :read Is Past just really just the past???
 
As for me the past is just that the past, I dont need bring up the past and I hate when the man just keep bringing it up. But Im the type of person Ill just keep going foward.
 
You go GIRL .... I agree I wouldn't want him to do it to me either.

But I would want honestly....hey if you're still friends with an ex....then Hey just tell me cuz if I find out you're sneaking around to see her I'm gonna think the worse.
 
I think Honesty is the best policy and if your significant other doesnt have anything to hide then it shouldnt be an issue.. its when they start hiding their "friends" that bring up questions and makes the mind wander...I'm an open book.. cell fone, emails, messengers.. I dont have shyt to hide..
 
I dont bother with stuff like that. I like to have some privacy so I do the give the same respect for my significant other. I have nothing to hide but i will tell you something when i'm ready too.

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ricanlips4u said:
I think Honesty is the best policy and if your significant other doesnt have anything to hide then it shouldnt be an issue.. its when they start hiding their "friends" that bring up questions and makes the mind wander...I'm an open book.. cell fone, emails, messengers.. I dont have shyt to hide..
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YUP YUP! I agree 100%

we don't hide nothing from each other, no need to. We are getting married so what is the purpose?..lolol
 
Nyasia said:
YUP YUP! I agree 100%

we don't hide nothing from each other, no need to. We are getting married so what is the purpose?..lolol
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Exactly.. I like knowing.. I dont go for that "what u dont know dont hurt you" stuff..
 
ricanlips4u said:
Exactly.. I like knowing.. I dont go for that "what u dont know dont hurt you" stuff..
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exactly girl 😉 we are very open with each other...sometimes too open!..lolol but we wouldn't have it any other way...
 
I think its the Boricua in us..... 100% HONEST with each other.

As for the movie..... the girl was just very insecure about herself.... too bad
 
Im getting married to, to a fine little Latina , so ....no lies... I fear for my life lol!!!

PAST is PAST, now if your significant other starts being mysterious or something out of the ordinary......then and only then I feel that you gotta strap on the "stomping boots" and deliver a little whoop-ass!!!

Just like C&C Music Factory ---> Things that make you go Hmmmmmm?!?
 
SPYBOY said:
Im getting married to, to a fine little Latina , so ....no lies... I fear for my life lol!!!

PAST is PAST, now if your significant other starts being mysterious or something out of the ordinary......then and only then I feel that you gotta strap on the "stomping boots" and deliver a little whoop-ass!!!

Just like C&C Music Factory ---> Things that make you go Hmmmmmm?!?
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:lol Spy Boy, now if both Female and Male agree to be a 100% honest thats the best, But I would go through his info. as i dont want him going through mine, if you want to know something ask me and I will tell you. thats how i go about it
 
I feel if you have nothing to hide it shouldn't matter to you whether your stuff is looked at or not. Whether it's e-mails , address book ect. When you're comfortable and honest with your partner the only privacy you would need is when you're on the crapper (be real) 😉
 
i have a dozy on this and some of u know the story earlier last year i met this real sweet honey at the TKA/K7 show at culture club. we had gone out first date she was real kewl thought every thing was great . second date she takes my cellphone from my belyt clip and goes through my address book and asks who these people are and i say there friends of mine so she starts to delete them female names says i dont need to talk to them any more
 
Edalgiere said:
i have a dozy on this and some of u know the story earlier last year i met this real sweet honey at the TKA/K7 show at culture club. we had gone out first date she was real kewl thought every thing was great . second date she takes my cellphone from my belyt clip and goes through my address book and asks who these people are and i say there friends of mine so she starts to delete them female names says i dont need to talk to them any more
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Thats just rude! First off its not something you do whether you are new in a relationship or in it for ever.. Thats a huge sign of horrible things to come!
I dont see an issue w/ asking questions, only cuz you really wanna know wuz up, but to delete numbers? :nono
 
Ed, 1st, 2nd, 100th date.. no one should be doing that PERIOD. 😉

The way I look at it, my friends are his friends or they will be soon enough. I don't have the energy to be bothered by what's in his past... not as long as it is IN THE PAST!.
 
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