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i went to my reg checkup on thursday and friday the doctor called me and said u gotta come in and plan something becausse your kidney is going soon 🙁 he asked me what do i wanna do . i said im not the doctor dumb ass u are u should know what to do thats what u are getting paid the big bucks for to keep me alive . i said im not comin in because i dont feel sick i will be in when im in the area he said no u gotta come in and plan something i said i have alot of plans but i cant tell u over the phone . im fed up with doctors cant trust them . : ( i told them u gotta go someday let me go in my own home .
 
hey remember me? but dman that sad to hear. i hate doctors to. but u should go see teh doctors to plan somethin so they can save ur kidney
 
Joe seriously you should do whatever possible, you have friends and family who love you
 
Sorry to read about your situation Joe. I feel you completely, some doctors just can't be trusted. I had a doctor treat me and made a few mistakes that screwed me over in the long run. I go to another doctor and he was baffled by some of the things the previous had done. Let alone, I was scared outta my mind about what was going on, I also had to pay for recovery treatments all out my own pocket. And trying to prove liability is difficult. Only thing I would say is stay strong and keep you REAL friends and family around. They'll offer support and one of them may also be the link to an answer.
 
if its my time its my time nobody can stop me its all in gods hands not mine im not fighting anymore im sick of hospitals i know more people there then i do at home . thanks everyone if i am not around much longer thank u to everyone who has been cool with me :sosad and scared
 
Joe I'm sorry to hear the bad news. But listen are you on a waiting list for a kidney? have you and your family members talked about the possibility of one of them being a donor?

In all case love I will pray for you and hope that you get this resolved.
 
im not on the list yet they wanna talk to me again but im not in the mood to talk to doctors . they told me a few times to get ready to be put on the list im tired of them anymore im ready to throw in the towl . 🙁 i am not ment to be happy gods plan is for me to deal with a unhealthy and unhappy life i dont know what i did wrong to have this done to me .
 
Joe, you have to sit and speak with the docs. I know you're upset. I used to work in the "Renal Transplant" clinic and I've seen a lot of patients get kidneys and do well. Yes, there are those where the kidneys were rejected by the body and those patients that went through dialysis. It's sad period because all of them were miserable and unhappy too. BUT, I got close to so many patients that I can honestly tell you that they were troopers. They didn't give up. They kept going. They did what they had to do. Add more years to your life by becoming a little more positive during your hard times. I'm not perfect. I get negative with a lot of things too. I don't have the health problem and I have to remind myself that I must be thankful for what I have.


You should go to the doctors and find out your options. Then discuss it with your family. Like Lamatrix said, find out who in your family can possibly be a donor for you. Someone may match. Don't give up. Look we're all going.........but it's when GOD says it's time! NOT when we want. You've come this far, keep going Joe!
 
i had my first kidney transplant in 1984 they said they only last for 18 - 20 years 🙁 i wanna prove them wrong like i been doing my whole life but it looks like they won this time and i will need a 2 kidney transplant i hope i can keep my 2 one as long as i kept my first my first was from my mother and they say family members are the best . so i hope i can get another famliy members kidney to live longer . i dont plan on giving up but im fed up with all the bad news they give me when i go . i feel fine they should lisn to me on how i feel not numbers that does not mean a thing to me its how i feel is what is number 1 in my book .
 
i dont even feel sick so i dont know whos chart they are reading it happen to me before were i had blood work and the tests were wrong the doctors are not perfect they dont know everything so they should go by how i feel not numbers they can stick the numbers were the sun dont shine .
 
Joe- He said it's "going soon". He's preparing you. In other words, start thinking NOW about what YOU need to do. Don't think about it when it has already failed. By that point, it's too late. He's the doctor, not you. You may not feel sick now, because your kidney is still functioning.
 
yeah but the doctors been wrong with me before sayin i would not live past 8 years old im 32 now i hope to god they are wrong again so i can prove them wrong and said take the numbers and shove them .
 
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