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Can you tell your friend if you feel he/she is doing something wrong, or something is all wrong, taking the chance that perhaps your friend may turn on you? You try to help but they don't take it like you're really helping and they go against you.
 
had that happen once.

Just after high school, had a friend who was heavy into pot. Not just a little smoking, but smoking and driving it.

I tried to talk to him about it, and he was not happy with my "intervention".

Said I was a disappointment as a friend, and walked out. Never saw him again.
 
I aint got no friends. Except online who I never seen face to face. 😛 I ain't got the time for bullshit. A loner is the best way for me to be in peace without any worries etc. 🙂

A friend is a buck in your pocket. 😀

-ant
 
Enigma said:
I ain't got the time for bullshit. A loner is the best way for me to be in peace without any worries etc. 🙂
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If it works for you, good.

Been there, done that, and happier now with friends.
 
Usually it takes me a while to plan how im'ma go out telliing the person...because of that fear of them turning on me, pero eventually i do tell them...and i just think that if they stop talkn to me well then thats their loss n i wish the best for them

chuck- u know u did the right thing...even if that "friend" took it the wrong way...hopefully he realized what he was doing was not good 4 him

lol@ enigma (a friend is a buck in ur pocket)
 
lil_reeses said:
chuck- u know u did the right thing...even if that "friend" took it the wrong way...hopefully he realized what he was doing was not good 4 him
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Hi Lil reeses. Yeah, I know I did the right thing. I just sometimes wonder what happened to him.

My 20 year reunion is in 2007, and I wonder if I will see him there.
 
Damn Ant! That's sad! 🙁

Ummmmmmm I'm like lil reeses...I usually THINK before I speak but eventually I'll say my what I have to and if they don't like it...oh well.
 
ChuckD said:
had that happen once.

Just after high school, had a friend who was heavy into pot. Not just a little smoking, but smoking and driving it.

I tried to talk to him about it, and he was not happy with my "intervention".

Said I was a disappointment as a friend, and walked out. Never saw him again.
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What a shame............Sad for him! Cause you're a good person.
 
I hear you Labetty but I have never had the problem. An example would be me and Vicky( la matrix), we don't hold our tongue when it comes to each other and it has never hurt our relationship.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
Depending on how serious the situation is, it can get ugly if they don't understand that you're just looking out for them.
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I just break it down..I'm look blah blah blah blah!! You're gonna do what you're gonna do but this is how I feel. But you will learn one way or the other but i'm here for yah!!
 
La Mas Grande said:
I hear you Labetty but I have never had the problem. An example would be me and Vicky( la matrix), we don't hold our tongue when it comes to each other and it has never hurt our relationship.
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And that's a beautiful friendship. 🙂 A true one.
 
LaBettyBoop said:
What a shame............Sad for him! Cause you're a good person.
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AWWW GEEEE!

thanks LaBetty.

and I don't want to sound concieted, but you are right. His loss, not mine.
 
ChuckD said:
AWWW GEEEE!

thanks LaBetty.

and I don't want to sound concieted, but you are right. His loss, not mine.
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It truly is his loss...............

You know I would rather that my friend be as honest as possible with me than to be full of sh---!

And who ever said that honesty doesn't hurt????????
 
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