A Simple Comment...

[DiaMoND_GiRL]

TODAY I WAS WALKING OUT OF WORK AND A "FRIEND" OF MINE CAME UP TO ME AND WE STARTED TALKIN ABOUT THE HOLIDAYS... SIMPLE SHIT LIKE THAT. THEN OUT OF NOWHERE HE TOLD ME THAT I WOULD LOOK BETTER IF I DRESSED MORE LIKE A "GIRL". AND THAT THE ONLY REASON I ATTRACT "GHETTO ASS NIGGAS" AND "THUGS" IS BECAUSE OF WHAT I WEAR.

I DRESS WHAT MOST PPL WOULD CONSIDER "GHETTO". I HAVE THE BIG HOOP EARRINGS AND THE LONG ASS NAIL. AND U'LL CATCH ME WEARING JEANS AND CUTE SHIRTS OR PLAIN WHITE TEES AND SWEAT PANTS.

NOW TO ME, IT DOESNT MATTER. I DRESS THE WAY I WANT TOO AND THATS THAT. IF U DONT LIKE IT THEN TOO BAD. BUT WHY DO PPL "JUDGE" YOU BY WHAT U WEAR AND THEY WAY U ACT, BEFORE GETTING TO KNOW YOU... ?

 

[sweetheart]

THAT'S JUST THE WAY THE WORLD IS...PPL DO NOTHING BUT JUDGE OTHERS....I'VE GONE THROUGH SO MANY CHANGES IN MY LIFE THAT IT'S CRAZY!!!! HIGH SCHOOL THE MOST....BUT ONCE I STARTED WORKING I DIDN'T CARE WHAT PPL THOUGHT OF ME...I DRESSED HOW I WANTED TOO AND ACTED HOW I WANTED TOO...BUT THAT'S GOOD THAT YOU DON'T CARE WHAT PPL THINK OF YOU....IT'S GOOD NOT TO HAVE ANY INSECURITIES...UKWIM??? SCREW YOUR FRIEND...YOU ARE FINE THE WAY YOU ARE....LOL....

 

[DiaMoND_GiRL]

I WAS JUST SHOCKED THAT HE MADE THAT COMMENT. I TOLD HIM... IF HE DONT LIKE THE WAY I DRESS AND IS WILLING TO STOP TALKIN TO ME BECAUSE I ACT DIFFERENTLY THEN HE DOES... THEN HE AINT REALLY WORTH MY TIME...

 

[sweetheart]

I HEAR YA...YOU DON'T NEED FRIENDS LIKE THAT!

 

[Enigma]

BUT WHY DO PPL "JUDGE" YOU BY WHAT U WEAR AND THEY WAY U ACT, BEFORE GETTING TO KNOW YOU... ? [/color][/size]

Simple answer a good portion of the human race are phucking assholes. 🙂

I dress like thug with baggy clothes etc and I got that look like i want to start something but you know what? Inside Im a teddy bear...just wanting to murder...steal...and "hold up" a girl for her sweet panty. :lol

-ant

 

[ChuckD]

That's the way of the world.

You are always judged by how you look, or how you are dressed.

 

[kxrider375]

This one is all about first impressions. People everywhere are like that, but if you think about it, what else do people have to go on. When you first see someone the only thing you have to go on is the way they look and dress and no matter how you look at it, the way you dress is part of who you are.

For instance I can go to work in a tie as usual and I can be around attoney's and business people like that and they look at me fine, no problem, not imposing at all. I go home and put on my regular hang out clothes and I look like my kids. Baggy shorts, Spy shades, cap on backwards, baggy shirt and now all of a sudden those same people look at me like I'm some kind of threat and rather imposing (I'm a 6' mexican) like a street kid...and what can you do. It's also who I am.

You can't blame people that don't know you and may get that impression. All you can do is carry yourself with pride and dignity, because you know what you're made of and once people see that, then they know that you are one of character and they respect that regardless of how you dress.

As for this a$$hole, how can he say that if he already knows you? Don't waste your breath on that guy.

Stay strong and be proud of who you are.