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Liz_Torres

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I got a new email tonight from someone who was once very special to me. I went as far as goin to see him this past summer for a few days .
I understand we all have lives to live- things that need to be done in order to proceed....I've come to realize that I'm completely over him. and I wish I could say he's just a friend, but it's weird - I don't even feel that way, as a matter of fact I was kinda bothered by his email.So much time has passed since I last spoke to him...I guess I'm kinda feelin mean.....
it was nothing mean, it was a very nice a simple email.. HI how are you..etc. how the kids, tell em I said hello etc...

but I even sent him a nice birthday card- and I didn't even get a call or email, or a letter saying thank u.....

I guess I'm just babbling- this time last year I couldn't wait to see him- I wanted to be with him, and spend time with him....at some point afterwards I felt used...I now see he had an agenda, but I stil wanted to be a part of his life. And until this past summer even the GOOD Bye when I left his house, I knew it was completely over.

okok - I think I'm done....

what would be your take??????
 
Did You Reply To His E-mail? Maybe His Hidden Agenda Is Popping Up Again? Maybe He's Just Popping To Say Hi. Is He The Type To Pop In And Say Hi From Time To Time? Do You Think Something's Up With That? LOOKS KINDA IFFY TO ME....:biggrin
 
well I'm glad to see that your over him, or what you thought was there. for him not to acknowledge your card to him was pretty rude. NO one treats our Liz that way coño!😉
 
I did ATX- he told me he went to LIGHT UP ORLANDO and saw TKA....so I kinds felt like rubbin it in about the COPA, the FILE @ Ashley's house, the FILE comin again soon..... who we were chillin with....Maybe he was just poppin in to say Hello- I dunno.....

Naya word, out of the kindess of my heart.....I paid alot for the damn Bday card- $1.99....and .37Cents for the freggin stamp- that's why I stay broke, thinkin on others....
 
WELL, I'D STILL TALK TO HIM FROM TIME TO TIME IF YOU'RE COMFORTABLE WITH THAT, BUT I WOULDN'T LOOK FOR HIM AND I WOULD ALWAYS BE ON GUARD WHEN IT COMES TO HIM, SO I DON'T GET HURT OR ANYTHING. THAT'S MY TAKE ON IT. 😉 AND I'D SEND ATX ONE OF THOSE $1.99 CARDS, YEAH, THAT'S WHAT I'D DO IF I WERE YOU.😛 HEHE!
 
Well he got some bolas. I realized that when people are to nice we get stopped. Nena Dont worry about it. Im glad u said you are over him, it might have been hard, but you are strong and dont give im a time of day. Not even to say thankyou shoot that is not nice.
 
i know what u mean seems like they r all comming out of the woodwork cause of the storm housebounding everyone.
 
Aim he lives in FL.

I saw him this past summer, he was cool - letting me crash at his house, I hooked him up w/ some spanish cooking....but at night it felt wierd cuz although I had my son- what was once lust was no longer there.....it just GOOD Night-..and then onto the next day....
 
Well I am glad that you have no feelings for him, this could be a sign from him basically realizing that you are no longer there for him and that he feels that his grip over you as died down. He is probably now trying to see if he can fix the grip and continue to use you the way he wanted. Just remember he had a hidden agenda before what makes you think he is not up to the same trick.
 
aim4night said:
i know what u mean seems like they r all comming out of the woodwork cause of the storm housebounding everyone.
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LMAO, my little one father called today out of the blue too!..lol I asked him if they let him out for a few minutes and he sneaked a call!..LOLOL but I said I was taken the boys outside to get some beautiful sunshie air and couldn't speak to him..lol please nicca, I ain't got time for bullshit.

you kow what Liz, fcuk him, if he couldn't appreciate it when you went out and sent him a card, then he can keep it moving. it don't take much to say thank you.
 
AIm, funny u should say that- I am home but it's not like I did nothing, things that had to be done were done, I spent time w/ visiting family- so it's not like I'm miserable- I even remember him fessing up that when he first got to FL and he was staying w/ a cousin- and he fell upon hard times he wondered why he didn't stay with me in Massachusetts......but He chose to move on- and then so did I......

in the reply i sent him- I sent pix of the kids and a new one of me- just to show him, what he's missin'

Naya the kids father calls me talkin about why I can't call hm to tell him how the boys are....plzzzzzzzz I flat out don't call cuz his wife must feel threatened by me- why?? I dunno...I'm thousands of miles away....he calls when he has a fight w/ wifey.....and now he'll claim he has no wat of contacting me- but the kids care less. I give them what they need and they don't stress him...f'k it
 
Sh*t Liz, I just had a similar thing happen to me. I got an email outta the blue last month from my ex-boyfriend who was very close with my daughter.We hadnt talked in about seven months, since I called him for his birthday and he was a ungrateful di*k about it.I figured after he acted like that I wouldnt bother anymore cause I knew he was involved. Like I said, he emails me outta the blue and asks if he can contact my daughter and I told him thanks for asking about her but I didnt feel it was a good idea. He obviously got bent outta shape, but what did he expect me to do, drop everything cause he contacted me and let him screw with my daughters feelings again.Cause she was very hurt when he left the first time.So like an ass, I emailed him the other day to send him a pic of my daughter in Cancun and wish him a nice holiday. He responded like we had no history what so ever,like he was talking to someone he just met. Three lines,very impersonal,very cold. Know what I say, FUK HIM!!!! Last time I try to be nice.....I hope(hee hee)
 
LOL!!! Great minds think alike Liz!! Just read the part about you sending your pic along....I almost sent one of me too, but I chickened out. I didnt want him to think I had an alterior motive and give him satisfaction. Cause trust me...he think he is all that and he would automatically think I am trying to hook up with him
 
Well he's a nice guy- and I was even willin to see past certain things (*Ahem) cuz I found him to be a nice individual...
ANd although he seemed very interested, and yet he sent confusing vibes...it did take a long time to get over him and I even got sick over it- but like I said I got over him, and when I saw him this past summer it was different.
 
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