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Old 01-19-2004, 12:18 PM
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The "Official" ClubFreestyle self improvement/success thread!

Ok peeps, here we go!

At the end of 2003, and the begining of 2004, a lot of members here were talking about the changes they wanted in their life. Whether it was to lose weight, get out of debt, get a new car, new job, new look, whatever.....

How many people are still working on their new goals????


Here's what I propose.....we use this thread to help each other out. There is strength in numbers, and if all who want changes in their lives post here what they are working for, we can all help each other be positive.

Who wants to lose weight? Ask for advice, and the people who are having success can share what is working for them.

Who wants a new job? Other members here who are in the same "area" can maybe help opening at their jobs, or where resume`s can be sent.

Who wants a new car? Maybe you can find a reliable dealer here, or where you can find a great deal.

You can come here to vent.......complain about the way the diet is going, the way the old car is acting, the way the job is....and we can give support to each other.


Let's get together on this. We can really help each other, and make positive changes for everyone! Let's make 2004 a positive year for everyone!!!!
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Old 01-19-2004, 12:20 PM
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great idea chuck :dancingb
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I'm with you Chuck! I need a job! Who wants my resume?
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Old 01-19-2004, 12:28 PM
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Great Idea Chuck.

I'll be seeking help, I'm sure. :lol
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Old 01-19-2004, 02:05 PM
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i wont change a thing about me only thing i wish i can change is were i was born.
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Old 01-19-2004, 03:20 PM
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Why change that Joe? And if you are not happy with where you are, you could always move.....

Change is good. It helps you grow as a person, physically, mentally and spiritually.
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Old 01-19-2004, 03:23 PM
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if it was that easy i would be out in a heartbeat but im just a broke DJ from philly the place were freestyle was once big and all the teams choke.
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Old 01-19-2004, 03:27 PM
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chuck i like the idea job and weight and learning to keep relationships are my goals
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Old 01-19-2004, 03:30 PM
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Ok Joe, so maybe you are not in a place where you are happy. You can find ways to work with that.

As for the teams that choke, I know that people get caught up in the games, but you have to look at it this way. You are not responsible for other people's actions. You are only responsible for how you react to them. You can either wallow in sadness and anger, or, you can start planning for next season!
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if it was that easy i would be out in a heartbeat but im just a broke DJ from philly the place were freestyle was once big and all the teams choke.
then why dont you go out and look for a job? Dont let Djing be the only thing you do..... they only work on the weekends.. find a monday through friday job, then you can move?
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joe u might have to take a step back and figure out what u want to do in your life take some classes
thats what i did 4 years ago at the time life for me was
worthless. death for myself at the time was something to think about
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well i am on a diet and am taking a new major in college.
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well i am on a diet and am taking a new major in college.

You go girl!!!!!

What is your new major?????

And what about the diet? Is it a specific diet you are following? And what is your goal weight loss?


I'm just watching what I eat, and have a goal of losing 110 pounds. So far, I've lost 45 lbs. 65 more to go!
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I am switching my position at work, which I am very nervous about, but it has potential to make a lot more money. My other goal this year is to organize my home because unfortunately I am a highly unorganized. I also am working on paying off my debts, which I have already made a good dent in. And most important, I am trying my best to end "negative relationships"
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well my major is now accouting for which i have solid work experience in. just never had the degree to back it up. i will still
pursue computers when i transfer to a 4 yr school. my weight loss goal is to shed 20 lbs. i am trying to eat less and not eat after 7 pm. next week i start6 on slim fast. i have used it in tha past and was very successful.
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Old 01-20-2004, 09:28 AM
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This is a great idea Chuck. You are totally right, there are strength in numbers and it is very helpful to a person to see that they are not the only ones going through a particular problem. It's also helpful to see that others have gotten over the hurdles that one is stuggling with at the moment.

Open up people, find strength in each other.
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Old 01-20-2004, 09:49 AM
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Good Strategy Chuck!
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Great Idea, Chuck!!!

I'm on a diet and I quit smoking!

Everything is going fine, just taking it one day at a time!
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Great Idea, Chuck!!!

I'm on a diet and I quit smoking!

Everything is going fine, just taking it one day at a time!

You Go Sweetie!!!!!!!

i give you a lot of credit! Smoking has got to be the hardest habit to break!

I KNOW you can do this!!!!!!!!

Buy lots of sugarless gum to chew!
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Old 01-20-2004, 09:03 PM
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well my major is now accouting for which i have solid work experience in. just never had the degree to back it up. i will still
pursue computers when i transfer to a 4 yr school. my weight loss goal is to shed 20 lbs. i am trying to eat less and not eat after 7 pm. next week i start6 on slim fast. i have used it in tha past and was very successful.
You go girl!!!!!

Cf people are gonna be hotter looking people come the summer!!!!!

Good luck with the new major too!!!!
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Is this going to be titled in the forum?

Like, "Everything Else/Shoutouts"

Will this be titled

"Self Improvement/Success thread"?

When is it going to start?
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Well I'm On The Atkins Diet And I Have Joined A Gym. My Goal Is To Lose 35 Pounds So Far I Have Lost 12. I Also Want To Become A Mentor And I Am Looking Into That Hopefully It Works Out. Btw Great Idea Chuck.
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Old 01-21-2004, 09:23 PM
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Is this going to be titled in the forum?

Like, "Everything Else/Shoutouts"

Will this be titled

"Self Improvement/Success thread"?

When is it going to start?
Gina, it isn't going to be a special forum. This thread is the thread you can come to. it started now. Post away about anything that is postitive in your life to share, or a problem that maybe someone here can help you with!
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