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Freestyle Forum: LOOKS VS. PERSONALITY
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Old 03-11-2001, 01:41 PM
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I was just wondering what my freestylers look for in a person (being that we're into that love music). Does looks mean a lot in a relationship or does personalty out weigh it? I personally think that both do but that personality is more important. The way I see it is that the guy can be fine, but if he has a bad case of diarreha of the mouth he just killed it and his looks disappeared.
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Old 03-11-2001, 03:40 PM
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I THINK A SENSE OF HUMOR IS VERY IMPORTANT......
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Old 03-11-2001, 07:18 PM
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Looks are very important in a relationship. You have to be attracted to the person you're with. Then personality also means a lot too. Both to me are equal when it comes to what you look for in a person.
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Old 03-12-2001, 07:39 AM
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Cool i agree.....

looks are very important with my selection.. but Here are the 4 things I look for in a relationship, Honesty, Common Sense, Loyalty, and Looks,its kinda funny, i was just talking about this last night...

The Top Ten List for Whats Most Important to Me searching for Miss Right...

10."Bunny Rabbit"
9.Likes FREESTYLE!!!!!!
8.Likes to dance
7.Sense of Adventure
6.Likes to travel
5.Sense of Humor
4.Looks
3.Loyalty
2.Common Sense
1.Honesty

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Old 03-12-2001, 01:50 PM
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I think they both are important, as well as an open mind and a sense of humor
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Old 03-12-2001, 01:51 PM
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I think looks are important for initial attraction. However, I would rather have an average looking person that takes care of himself than a heart throb that does not.

And...once the looks/sex/chemistry whatever fades you really need to look into personality for anything to last.

So, initially looks but in the long run you gotta have a great personality!!!

Thats my 2 cents
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Old 03-12-2001, 04:44 PM
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IN ALL HONESTY LOOKS PLAY AN IMPORTANT ROLE BECAUSE U HAVE TO BE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE CAN TAKE PLACE BUT LOOKS ARE NOT EVERYTHING BECAUSE A MAN CAN BE CUTE AS HELL BUT IF HE CANT STIMULATE ME MENTALLY IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW CUTE HE IS. SOME OF THE QUALITYS I FIND IMPORTANT ARE A SENSE OF HUMOR,#1 HYGIENE, HONESTY AND LOYALTY. IN THE END THEY BOTH PLAY AN IMPORTANT PART THERE IS NO DENYING THAT. MUCH LOVE MUAHHHHHHH.
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Old 03-12-2001, 04:48 PM
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All of you are right...You see the person first, and whether or not they look good has an effect on whether you talk to them or not, and then after talking, with in the first 9 minutes you know whether your combatible or not.
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Old 03-13-2001, 05:21 AM
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To each his own. I think that personality is most important. I can honestly say that if my husband had not approached me 11 years ago, I doubt I would've looked at him. He was too thug looking for me and had alot of girls around him, but once I spoke to him I fell hard. He is smart and has a great personality. I guess it depends on the person. Looks fade......personality is forever.
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Old 03-13-2001, 06:01 AM
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I agree with lilitaliana. I think personality has alot to do with it!!!! Did you ever meet a really good looking person and they turn out to be a jerk and all of a sudden they dont look so good looking anymore???? Or vise versa, you meet someone that isnt that attractive and there personality is great, and all of a sudden they dont seem so bad looking.
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Old 03-13-2001, 10:40 AM
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It's looks that initially sparks that interest. However, looks arent enough. There has to be a spiritual connection for anything to last and personality plays a big part in that
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Old 03-13-2001, 11:47 AM
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Looks don't mean sh*t. It's all about what's in the mind and heart.
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Old 03-13-2001, 12:44 PM
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WELL LOOKS TO ME IS VERY IMPORTANT, I THINK YOU HAVE TO BE PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE, BUT I ALSO THINK YOU HAVE TO BE MENTALLY ATTRACTED ALSO. I DON'T REALLY GO FOR LOOKS ANYMORE, BELEIVE ME , I HAVE DATED SOME REALLY NICE LOOKING WOMEN AND WHO HAVE TURNED OUT SICK IN THE HEAD!!LOL IT'S HARD TO FIND SOMEONE BEAUTIFUL AND SMART AT THE SAME TIME. LOOKS TO ME DON'T PLAY A MAJOR ROLE ANYMORE, IT USE TO, BUT NOT NO MORE. I HAVE BEEN GETTING PICKIER AND PICKIER BY THE DAY, I LIKE TO CHOOSE CAREFULLY NOW. I KNOW THAT IT SOUNDS A LIL COCKY , BUT AFTER DEALING WITH WHAT I HAVE DELT WITH YOU WOULD ALSO BE PICKY. ONCE YOU ARE MENTALLY ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE THEN YOU ARE ATTRACTED NO MATTER WHAT THE PERSON LOOKS LIKE. I LIKE WHEN I CAN HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH SOMEONE AND HAVE A FEW LAUGHS WITH THEM. I ALSO THINK HUMOR IS THE BEST QUALITY I CAN FIND IN SOMEONE, I LOVE WHEN A WOMAN CAN MAKE ME LAUGH. EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN TASTE, YOU CAN LIKE SOMEONE JUST FOR LOOKS, YOU CAN LIKE SOMEONE FOR BEING SMART, YOU CAN LIKE SOMEONE BECAUSE OF THIER POPULARITY, YOU CAN LIKE SOMEONE FOR THEIR MONEY, OR YOU JUST CAN LIKE SOMEONE. IT'S ALL ABOUT THE PERSON YOU ARE AND YOUR TASTES.


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Old 03-13-2001, 12:49 PM
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eh...looks really shouldnt matter that much...i mean yeah its great if ya find a really hot person...but if she has the personality of a wet sock....it kills the looks part of it.. to me..as long as i dont get bored of the person...and she doesnt look like someone did a burnout on her face....and she has a really good personality ...thats perfect
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Old 03-13-2001, 02:52 PM
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ok.... Im agree with the part of the girl has to at least attract me physically. I mean she doesn't have to be a drop dead gorgeous supermodel or so, but u know. BUT also she has to have the Personality. Humorus is a definate plus! Plus she has to love my babyface with my pinchable cheeks!lol
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Old 03-13-2001, 04:23 PM
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OK...WE ALL KNOW THAT LOOKS HAVE TO COUNT FOR SOMETHING RIGHT...I MEAN WHEN U SEE A GUY/GIRL DO U HONESTLY THINK HEY HE/SHE LOOKS LIKE THEY HAVE AN AMAZING PERSONALITY??? NO...YOU AUTOMATICALLY JUDGE THEM BY THERE LOOKS...IM NOT SAYING LOOKS ARE EVERYTHING CAUSE THERE NOT..BUT THEY DO COUNT FOR SOMETHING...BUT I SAY IF THEY TREAT U RIGHT AND MAKE U FEEL SPECIAL.. THEN WHO CARES ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE...
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Old 03-13-2001, 06:31 PM
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I THINK A SENSE OF HUMOR IS VERY IMPORTANT......

dont i make you laugh?????? heehee
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Old 03-13-2001, 10:55 PM
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Anthony ~ You go boy! I hear you!

What I look for is simple but a lot of guys Don't have these qualities!
Gotta have:
1. Respect
2. Honesty
3. Understanding

Simple yet difficult to accomplish! WHY are guys so hardheaded?

Anthony, when you mentioned about being Picky, I am picky about chosing a person cause a lot of guys don't have these qualities. I feel you. Can totally relate!
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Old 03-14-2001, 02:19 PM
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I definately think looks and personality are equal. But looks are first and the personality comes next. If the personality sucks, then the looks don't matter...they're out the door. Here's my little list in what I look for in a guy:

1. integrity
2. open-minded
3. goodlooking
4. intellectual
5. good head on his shoulders
6. likes sports/adventerous
7. sense of humor
8. passionate/romantic
9. intriguing
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Old 03-15-2001, 07:31 AM
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I honestly think that looks are not everything. A person could be the most gorgeous person in the universe, but if they don't have a good personality then what's the point. Yeah i know that physical attraction is important as whether or not you will approach a person, but if you took the time and approached anybody and not just the attractive people, you would find that the people with the best personality are the best looking ones no matter what they really look like. See I talk to anybody who will talk back no matter what they look like, cause it's not all physical. Looks are going to go sooner or later and what you are like inside will be with you forever. Peace out freestyle lovers.
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Old 03-15-2001, 08:27 AM
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I agree with Freestyle Goddes. Looks will eventually fade, but personailty is forever. There are two sides to a coin..just like there are two sides to a person. While they might be beautiful on the outside, their inside could be ugly and that might not make for a good relationship.
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Old 03-19-2001, 04:19 AM
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Old 03-28-2001, 02:31 PM
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"love" is a chemical reaction that fades within time. we seek it cuz we feel empty inside ourselves. but hey, whatever makes the human happy right?
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Looks don't mean sh*t. It's all about what's in the mind and heart.
Sadly this member is no longer SO I CANT GIVE THEM REP POINTS,but he is exactly right!!
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