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Freestyle Forum: When is it too soon??
View Poll Results: When is it too soon???
Less than 6 months 2 13.33%
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Old 08-24-2001, 04:36 PM
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When is it too soon??

When is it too soon to say the three magic words....I LOVE YOU to someone. I was just curious to what people thought. Give me your thoughts on this.

Me personally.....I am falling in love with my boyfriend but don't feel like telling him that I love him just yet. I think I'm afraid I will scare the living day lights out of him and he would run for cover.....hahah.....we've been dating for close to 5 months and known each other for 1 yr. But I also think I use that as an excuse cuz I don't think I even ready to admit it.

So what do you guys think???
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Old 08-24-2001, 04:58 PM
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i don't think you can say min 3 months or 5 or something cause if you do you do.
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I AGREE WITH THEREO YOU CANT GIVE IT A TIME LIMIT AS TO WHEN IS TO SOON AND WHEN ISNT. WHEN YOU FEEL IT YOU FEEL IT MAMA. WE CANT CONTROL THE WAY WE FEEL WHEN OUR HEARTS ARE IN CONTROL. WHO KNOWS MAYBE HE FEELS THE SAME WAY. I HAVE HAD SOME EX'S TELL ME THEY WERE FALLING IN LOVE WITH ME OR THAT THEY COULD EASILY FALL FOR ME AND SOMETIMES THAT IS A WAY TO LET A PERSON KNOW YOUR HEART IS THERE IN A NON-DIRECT WAY. YOU GET A REACTION WITHOUT SPILLING THE BEANS LOL AND FROM THERE YOU CAN TAKE IT. I PERSONALLY FEAR MY HEART SO IF I WAS FALLING IN LOVE IT WOULDNT BE EASY FOR ME AT ALL. JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART MIJA AND GOOD LUCK
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Old 08-24-2001, 08:04 PM
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LISTEN TO ME
DO NOT SAY IT!
DO NOT KNOW YOUR BOYFRIEND BUT 5 MONTHS NO!!
TRUST ME FOR REAL........
THE LATER THE BETTER.....IF THINGS ARE GOOD RIGHT NOW WHY CHANCE IT OR CHANGE IT JUST LEAVE IT AS IS........
"I LOVE U" EVIL WORD....................
AND IF U FELL U JUST HAVE TO SAY IT,,,,,,,,TELL ME U LOVE ME
AND I WILL BE OK WITH IT........
PEACE HOPE TO SEE U SOON
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Old 08-24-2001, 09:02 PM
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Thanks Guys for the advice.....and LOL PR I NUB YA......hehehe!!
Want to hear from more guys.....guys seem to be the ones who are more paranoid about those 3 words
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Old 08-25-2001, 11:43 AM
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YO LIKE SEXY SAID THERE ISNT TIME FOR THAT IF THATS WHAT YOUR HEART IS FEELNG LET GO SEE WHAT THE REACTIONS ON THAT PERSON IS OR IF HE PUTS A FACE OR ACTS WIERD W/ YOU THEN JUST CHANGE THE MOOD AND WAIT TILL HE SAYS IT WHAT COULD HAPPPEN NOTHING YOUR JUST EXPRESSING YOURSELF NO HARM DONE
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Old 08-25-2001, 12:16 PM
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you want more input from guys, why mine isn't enough for you!
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Old 08-25-2001, 03:19 PM
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hehehe awwww Thereo I just want some more guys to comment on this......
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Old 08-25-2001, 11:07 PM
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I don't think you can put time limit on it. You really dont have control over who or when you fall in love with someone.
But it may be safe to take a little time before you say it just so you can make sure it is love your feeling.
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Old 08-26-2001, 11:20 AM
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I agree Whocarez that is why I have not said it......I want to BE SURE!!! Even though every part of my body and soul tells me its REAL!! I'm also waiting because I know HE IS not ready to hear it......I'll know when the time is right I HOPE!! LMFAO


Thanks for your comments.....I'll keep ya posted
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Old 08-26-2001, 11:32 AM
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you BETTER keep us posted! j/k You will know and i think you already do your just afraid of scaring him off.
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Old 08-27-2001, 07:16 AM
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Honestly, I don't think its ever too soon to tell someone
that you love them. If you have that strong feeling inside about that person in your life than I think they ought to know the way you feel. Why hold it inside when to be in love is a beautiful thing!
Express yourself and tell your partner how you feel! That way you know as well where or how the other person feels about you!
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Old 08-27-2001, 07:41 AM
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BOTTOM LINE....

.....ya gotta get to know the person 1st...PERIOD! I think less than 6 months (unless U're LIVING together) is to soon to say I Love You. Those are words that should NOT be thrown around. It's gotta come from the corazon.
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I don't think that it's ever too soon to tell someone that you love them BUT you do need to be sure.

My advice is if you are totally sure that you love someone, do NOT wait to tell that person. I have learned from experience that you should let people know how you feel. I had a special person in my life and I knew I had fallen in love with him and he told me he was fallin in love with me. I fought with myself for like a week straight whether or not to tell him how I truly felt. The following week he was killed in a traffic accident and I never got to tell him my true feelings. This hurt me so much but luckily I came to the conclusion that he knew how I felt even without me saying the words and I know that he too felt the same for me. I still wish I would have said those three words to him though!!!!!

It is never too soon to say "I Love You"........
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THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A TIME LIMIT....... WHEN YOU FEEL IT , YOU FEEL IT........ EVERYONE KNOWS WHEN THEY ARE GOING TO FALL IN LOVE... YOU'LL GET THE LITTLE BUTTERFLIES IN YOUR TUMMY AND WHEN YOU LOOK AT THE PERSON YOU'LL JUST PUT THIS BIG COOL AID SMILE ON YOUR FACE FROM EAR TO EAR. AND JUST HAVING THAT PERSON AROUND YOU IS MORE THAN ENOUGH TO MAKE YOUR DAY HAPPY AND JOYUS..... AND AFTER A MONTH OF THIS JOY THAT YOU FEEL FOR THIS PERSON THIS WAY , YOU'LL FEEL LIKE SAYING I LOVE YOU... OR IF NOT... YOU ARE PROBABLY SAYING I LOVE YOU BECAUSE THIS PERSON IS MAKING YOUR DAYS BRIGHT AND JOYFUL...... BELEIVE ME I KNOW WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM...... IF YOU FEEL LIKE SAYING IT , SAY IT... IF YOU FEEL SCARED THEN YOU'LL KNOW THE RIGHT TIME TO SAY IT.....I FEEL THE RIGHT ADVICE IS YOUR OWN ADVICE..... NO ONE IS ALIKE...... JUST FEEL WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS AND GO FOR IT...YOU'LL KNOW WHEN AND WHERE TO SAY IT....

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WOW YOU GUYS ROCK!!!

Well I almost said it this weekened, but instead it came out I NUB YOU!!! That is my term for Love without using "the word" and I've always said NUB YA BABES but this time I said I NUB YA!!! LOL!! WHAT A WUSS I AM!!! Anyway his response......WUB YA TOO!!! That gave me the BIGGEST KOOL AID ALL DAY, NIGHT, and Actually STILL HAVE IT!!!

I was sooooo close......but soon enough.....Keep ya posted!!

Thanks for the advice!! If you have any more or comments you need to get off your chest.....feel free
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I PERSONALLY DONT THINK THERE SHOULD BE A TIME WHEN IT IS "OK" TO DO IT.... IF U FEEL U R READY.. THEN GO FOR IT!!!
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u can't put a time frame on Love when u feel it
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When the time is right you just go with your gut feeling, theres no expiry date on those 3 words!
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HEY THEREO!!!!

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THERE I SAID IT YOU HAPPY!
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Actually you probably did the right thing by being a wuss. Your setting him up for the actual blow to the stomache. hahahah
He knows its coming soon. Maybe he will surprise you and say it first.

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LOL WhoCarez24

LOL THEREO!!!
GOTTA NUB THIS WUSS ANYWAYS
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TIME HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT FO SHO. WHEN YOU FEEL IT YOU FEEL IT AND SOMETIMES THERE ARE TIMES WE DONT EVEN KNOW WE DO FEEL IT AT TIMES IT JUST CREEPS UP ON YOU. LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING SO WHEN YOU FEEL IT SHARE WITH THAT PERSON. WHO KNOW S WHAT A DIFFERENCE THOSE THREE LITTLE WORDS CAN MAKE SUERTE CHICA
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